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Ok guess i'd better...'set the scene' first
Theres this guy who i've been dating on and off for the past few years, and even when we've not been dating if we're both single we've kinda been fuck buddies. Anyway since i've moved away from home to uni he's found himself a girlfriend. Last night we were chatting online about things including how the two of them are getting on, and well...he kinda asked me if i wanted to have a threesome with him and her! :crazyeyes
I mean i'm not uncomfortable having sex with him like i said, and tbh i'm kinda curious about having sex with another girl, but well its the whole threesome issue that i'm kinda unsure about.
I just kinda wondered what other people's experiences of threesomes had been...dunno just kinda worried i might get left out or something
Theres this guy who i've been dating on and off for the past few years, and even when we've not been dating if we're both single we've kinda been fuck buddies. Anyway since i've moved away from home to uni he's found himself a girlfriend. Last night we were chatting online about things including how the two of them are getting on, and well...he kinda asked me if i wanted to have a threesome with him and her! :crazyeyes
I mean i'm not uncomfortable having sex with him like i said, and tbh i'm kinda curious about having sex with another girl, but well its the whole threesome issue that i'm kinda unsure about.
I just kinda wondered what other people's experiences of threesomes had been...dunno just kinda worried i might get left out or something
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That's a good point to consider
Its good to be open to new ideas...play it safe of course but if you don't see yourself getting hurt then go for it.
In general, I wouldn't worry too much about being left out in that setting. It's a common worry for most people who have group sex, but if you all get on well, it can flow surprisingly naturally - which is why I'm advising for you to be cautious with this one.
Different strokes for different folks. I wouldn't throw out the idea of sleeping with someone my partner had previously slept with had it been left on good terms and all parties were happy with the arrangement.
I often forget that! *Has been hanging around with too many swingers*
go for it... At least you can let it sound that it was grand and have a fab story to tell. I wouldn't hesitate to get into a threesome with 2 girls, but on the other hand I am a 20yo male with the hormones of a classroom full of 15 yo's, so keep that in mind.
Thanks for all the great advice. I can kinda see the point about her being jealous etc, suppose i hadn't really considered that at all...apparently she'd told him she was up for threesomes and that kinda thing, but well...your never totally sure are you? i guess i need to talk to him properly about the situation
Like i said we are friends, but in reality not amazing friends, more just fuck buddies, i mean we have dated on and off, but as soon as we got together the pressure of a relationship kinda fucked things up for us
But yeah anyway guys i'm really grateful for your advice, i've gotta say secretly it does kinda intrigue me about so i guess i'm going to have to give it a bit of thought really