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objectification of women
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
recently i've started forgetting women are people too, there seems to be so much 'get women' type attitude that it seems to be completely about sex. in days gone i would sit in groups of girls and just talk and be liiked, no matter what they wanted from me, i just wanted to make ppl laugh with the right amount of concentration too. i could always speak and just get on with people.
but now too many gary nevile type men looking at me like well i've pulled 40 women since you've shagged your last, why don't you fuck. because i do more civilised things. i'm more rounded and i bet i can assist and score better than you too.
what happened to just getting on with people. maybe this is a step back for me, i should be seeing every woman as a potential fuck. but sex isn't important laughter is. since being arrested last year i've done neither. i don't talk to 'randoms' i just let them lead conversation and it's nearly always boring.
now i make no moves at all. so somewhere along the line, ppl have become too sure that they are doing things right and that i can't lead in any capacity just because they sound more likable, not what they come out with.
ppl are good, but they're seeing me all wrong.
edit*another rambling post sorry jim
but now too many gary nevile type men looking at me like well i've pulled 40 women since you've shagged your last, why don't you fuck. because i do more civilised things. i'm more rounded and i bet i can assist and score better than you too.
what happened to just getting on with people. maybe this is a step back for me, i should be seeing every woman as a potential fuck. but sex isn't important laughter is. since being arrested last year i've done neither. i don't talk to 'randoms' i just let them lead conversation and it's nearly always boring.
now i make no moves at all. so somewhere along the line, ppl have become too sure that they are doing things right and that i can't lead in any capacity just because they sound more likable, not what they come out with.
ppl are good, but they're seeing me all wrong.
edit*another rambling post sorry jim
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Sounds like someone isn't getting any action.
Yeh, women are people too, doesn't mean we have to treat them like godly saints. Lots of women just like fucking, look at men and think "phwoar he's hot" I think this society is actually getting more adrogynous if anything.