asking for certain 'favours'...

BillieTheBot

How would one go about asking their partner to do somthing kinky?

example
can you say to your partner "can you pee on me?"

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johnnyboy503 wrote:

How would one go about asking their partner to do somthing kinky?

example
can you say to your partner "can you pee on me?"

Oh, you finally found one!! you kinkster! Saving up the hormones, huh? :P

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id talk about it before in a half serious half jokey way. if they seem keen then go for it when the chance occurs.

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changed my mind about posting
felt 'dirty'
gonna go take a shower

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just be honest with them and then ask what fantasy they would like to act out? bit of give and take. its worth a go even if its once you might find out its not what you expected or your partner might not enjoy it.

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ha well my boyf is just discovering the world of sex, came up to me n just asked me straight out if we could do something the other day, so yeh that also works.

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bunglenutter, your a joker, love it :thumb:

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johnnyboy503 wrote:

How would one go about asking their partner to do somthing kinky?

example
can you say to your partner "can you pee on me?"

Pee on you? :eek2:

I can do that for free.

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well thanks but no thanks

Former Member

I wouldn't say "can you pee on me", and I'd be fucking weirded out if someone asked me to wee on them, but hey ho. Who am I to judge?

You just ask...if you're not ready to be open about what you want from sex, you're not ready to be having that sort of sex.

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or any at all I suppose.

that was just an example, believe me i've seen worse.

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say "open your mouth" then aim and see what happens

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Damn miss read it...

Just ask her if she saw that Friends one where they had to pee on each other...build it up like that. Take a shower together and remind her....if she doesn't get the idea then give up!

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Or just piss over her and say 'Wanna do me now ?'

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But be ready for *Slap*

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I think youd kind of have to have some idea that they will already be into certain things non-vanilla before you would suggest peeing on each other. Its not something I think you could ask in most relationships, but if it was going to be the sort of relationship where it was even a possibility, it might be a natural progression where it felt ok to ask.

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i would ask her if u could act out ur dreams and then say that is one of them and see how she reacts

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VinylVicky wrote:

say "open your mouth" then aim and see what happens

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha :thumb:

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I kinda believe "be careful what you wish for"

in the sense that if things go belly up then she will use these as anecdotes of insults. But hey, its all hypothetical for me!