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how do you make lust go away?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
how can you get rid of feelings for another person, that cannot possibly go anywhere???
ARGHHH!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    meet someone else
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what if that doesnt work? :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u havent met anyone good enough to take it away...keep trying....and if it's not possible to stay away from this someone then you'll just have to live with it until the feelings evertually fade (which they will)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sugar_mouse wrote:
    how can you get rid of feelings for another person, that cannot possibly go anywhere???
    ARGHHH!!!!

    Masturbate regularly.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    in my experience, they dont.

    you just learn to live with it and just carry on with whatever else your doing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it isnt really possible to avoid them! i hate it, i hate it!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this an ex or a crush?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a crush
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Think of them having sex with your mother. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ah
    well do you know him? does he have a girlfriend
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know him well, he's single :( thats the hardest part.
    click; thank u, uve actualy helped! + i smiled for the 1st time in weeks :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I see.

    well if your seeing someone then it is hard. I would say spend more time with your partner.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive just split up with my partner. we're having some time apart as we've been having alot of bad relationship issues+TBH. this isnt heping my state of mind :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeh why cant it go any where?

    Hes single, so u must be attached.... little more info...or just go for it :P

    have fun!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    shag him
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he's a friend, and is close to alot of ppl i know,so even IF he liked me in that way (which i doubt) he wouldnt do anything :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy, i cant (unfortunately) just do that
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sleep with someone else then ?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sugar_mouse wrote:
    he's a friend, and is close to alot of ppl i know,so even IF he liked me in that way (which i doubt) he wouldnt do anything :(
    Bet he would. Blokes always do.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry if I hit a soft spot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think you should get to know him better and see where that gets you.
    nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know him well enough+that is the problem. i just want to stop feeling like this bcos its not right :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is it because you know him too well to go after him? that you dont want to mess up your relationship with him?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sugar_mouse wrote:
    i just want to stop feeling like this bcos its not right :(
    Why is it not right?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes, and other things i dont particularly wana mention on here bcos i know him thru a friend at uni+she uses these boards also :( Really sorry guys for the lack of info, i just needed to vent
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok
    im sorry your feeling so bad though.
    Ive been there myself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm With Stupid wrote:
    Bet he would. Blokes always do.
    :yes: my mate who i had a fling with 2years ago said that theres no way his best friend would be interested in me because of that. and he totally was.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sugar_mouse wrote:
    i know him well, he's single :( thats the hardest part.
    click; thank u, uve actualy helped! + i smiled for the 1st time in weeks :D

    Focus on the bad bits. Think of him with his todger in your mother, sister, brother - whatever helps take the shine off him. Don't go looking for another crush - you'll just have to deal with the same thing again, but under fresh circumstances. :)

    Anyway, he'll have a hairy arse. A quid says he gets pieces of poo stuck on the hairs... ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and again click, thank u. ur cheering me up in the most bizarre of ways
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Click to see more wrote:
    Focus on the bad bits. Think of him with his todger in your mother, sister, brother - whatever helps take the shine off him. Don't go looking for another crush - you'll just have to deal with the same thing again, but under fresh circumstances. :)

    Anyway, he'll have a hairy arse. A quid says he gets pieces of poo stuck on the hairs... ;)


    Ha Ha Ha :lol:

    Thats all so very very very wrong!
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