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then i met this awesome girl at work she was clever, funny, gorgeous and unlike most girls of her age she had the abillity to laugh well at herself, needless to say she was attached and i ended up red faced and feeling low again,
the void of needing someone returned and she was at its centre, she has now left work and i dont see her anymore and im pretty much over her, but while she has left my thoughts the emptiness hasnt, i dont really like clubbing im a pretty shy bloke mainly cos of low self confidence, i cant see what others would see in me if that makes sense, i only have a few close friends mainly by choice, this leaves me kinda stuck for meeting girls however the ones i meet i wouldnt be right for,
i know this doesnt help in a practical sense but sometmes it helps to know others are up the same creek.
depends if someone thinks you're fit.
also how you dress/dance and don't get trollied or you'll attract the wrong sort.
Dear God no, pulling some munter nobody else wants at half two as the club is away to shut is bad enough, I dread to think what sort of things you'd find on the pull in the post-club kebab shop.
Seriously though, work is always a good shot. You don't wanna go on the pull in the office because there's laws about stuff like that, but it's a good place to network I suppose.
not every guy i meet and go on dates with turns out to be a boyfriend but some do and work out quite well
feel free to tell me to mind my own.
i spotted him when i first walked into this nightclub and i nabbed him later on
i think so yeh.
good on you!
it's just 'cause i've no love life to speak of of my own right now so i turn into a nosey cow.
:hyper:
i dont just go up to someone in a club and stick my tongue down their throat. we have a chat for a while. and also, before you go on a date they usually phone me or we spend ages texting so you already have a feel for what the person is like.
Dunno, if you meet someone in a nightclub then they're going to be the same person they would be if you met them through friends or whatever.
Physical stuff might just happen a bit quicker, it probably just means things taking a different course or whatever.
Have to say, I prefer the whole liking someone for a while thing, rather than things starting with a drunken grope. I'm always too drunk to chat, if I pull in a nightclub then it's not because of my sparkling wit and charm.
Different strokes and that.
Yeah, I totally agree with that!