Why?!

Former Member

Hi
Sorry this has probably been asked before and I have tried searching but couldn't find it!
Basically I had sex last night, first time any kinda action for just under a year and was with a guy I knew and that so its all cool, just a bit of fun, and he was the most active I've ever been with and that if you get what I mean.
Well basically afterwards I was bleeding a fair bit, it was really embarrasing, and I didn't know what to say or anything, bet he thinks I'm a right freak!
Why do you think this happened?
Possibly because of lack of action for a while so was maybe anxious but I was relaxed and there was plenty of foreplay so not that and I have no signs of any infections or pain or anything,
I felt awful this morning, I kinda wanna text him saying sorry and if he wants to do it again thats cool-as a casual thing, don't want anything serious or anything
what you think?
thanks

Former Member

Either he's cut you slightly because he was too rough, or you've come on.

Hardly your fault, I wouldn't be embarrassed.

Former Member

whats to be embarrassed about? Women bleed sometimes! Men do realise this.

Former Member

he might have just broken you in more.

Former Member

well it stopped a few hours after, yeh thats waht I thought I know where you have sex there is often a bit but there was loads more its not like im a vigin or anything! ARGH!
now the big question is should i text or just leave it?!

Former Member

for all he knows you just came on your period. don't make a big deal out of it and he won't either.

Former Member

lipsy wrote:

for all he knows you just came on your period. don't make a big deal out of it and he won't either.

he wasn't really making a big deal about it didn't seem bothered to be honest, I just hadn't seen as much blood during sex before, think it was just the roughness

Former Member

Did it hurt at the time?

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wooooooooah wrote:

Did it hurt at the time?

nope
had it a lot worse that that it wasn't sore at all

Former Member

dont make a big deal out of it.

Former Member

edited: too much info..