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tell someone you love them when your not in a relationship
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is it best to tell someone that you love them or have feelings with them when your not in a relationship with them? work with them? or are pretty sure they dont have any feelings for you?
im conserding the option of telling someone i work with that i have feeling for them and may be in love with them (still unsure), kinda scared as i work with the guy and dont want him to be an arsewhole about it or tell others etc..
advice,stories whateva would be good.
thanks XXX
im conserding the option of telling someone i work with that i have feeling for them and may be in love with them (still unsure), kinda scared as i work with the guy and dont want him to be an arsewhole about it or tell others etc..
advice,stories whateva would be good.
thanks XXX
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In which case don't start planning the wedding just yet.
Why do you need to blurt it all out anyway? What do you hope to achieve? That he loves you too? Because blurting it all out is one guaranteed way of making sure he never will.
As always, take things s-l-o-w-l-y.
Exactly
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Agreed. However, talking from experince, it can get a bit awkward if they tell you they don't fancy you back - it's even worse when they say nothing, though.
im not expecting anything to come of it but its just that...i cant hold it in anymore..cant handle the not being honest..i dunno if that makes sense?
*points out post about two posts up. She's already told him.
You mean he's not leading you on? I experinced this (what I've quoted) a few weeks ago. Was weird 'cause I've found before that if I tell anyone I like them, they go all weird on me; he, OTOH, said something to me (something like 'that is very sweet of you. I am very flattered) then just changed the subject totally and has been really nice to me recently (never really talked before) and has been acting like nothing was ever said.