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How do you know when its the right time

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Just what the title says really, how do you know when its the right time to have sex?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If it's for the first time, it will probably happen when you least expect it. If it's the first time in a relationship, the same probably applies.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good question. If it is your very 1st time I'm not sure if you ever know it is the right time all you can do is hope it is the right person. Mine was unexpected but I knew i wanted it to be him. If your well into your relationship then hopefully it is always the right time
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Hi there,
    TheSite has an article called Ready for sex which talks about some of factors which may help you decide whether or not you're ready.

    We also have Q&A in our askTheSite archive about the same issue which you may find interesting: Ready for bed

    Take care ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mambo90 wrote:
    Just what the title says really, how do you know when its the right time to have sex?
    if you are seriously thinking about that question. you've probably found the right time. now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    otter wrote:
    if you are seriously thinking about that question. you've probably found the right time. now.
    Right now? Not sure the computer keyboard would welcome a shagging myself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    stargalaxy wrote:
    Right now? Not sure the computer keyboard would welcome a shagging myself.
    :lol: well... may be not right this moment... :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mm yeah, I'm thinking it at the moment too. And I figure yeah, if I'm thinking about it and it feels like the right person, then why not? I don't think I'll ever be more sure about it so I, personally, am feeling pretty ready.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when you both want it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    here's an article on deciding when is right for your first time - but ultimately the decision is yours and no one can tell you the right answer

    http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/sexuality/awareness/amireadyforsex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when you do not have to ask the question 'is it the right time?'
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When the guy's dick goes hard. It's quite difficult up until that point.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah it's pretty much when you pitch one. Just listen to the body. It knows what it's doing.
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