Help me help my friend

Former Member

Hi Guys and Galz


My friend has this crush on this girl. Unfortunantly, she has a bf, and loves him a lot. She just wants to be friends with my fried, but he can't get it through his head.

He thinks that is he tells her he likes her, she might "think" about it. But she's told me numerous times she wants to just be friends, because he is her best friend.

He flirts with her all the time, and it doesn't help she kinda flirts back.

Best part is that he is convinced he is bad for her, and thinks he is basically much better than he is ( I am thinking jealousy)


Any advice would be appreciated! :cool:

Former Member

I'm confused as to in what way you think you will be able to do anything about this?

Former Member

Lol, I am sorry! I am trying to convice him to be her FRIEND instead of pursuing her so hard when she is already clearly confused.

Former Member

Well he's obviously not really her friend, because if he was, he'd let her make her own decisions, even if he really did think this guy was bad for her (obviously jealousy, by the way). Friends should just be there to pick up the pieces if it does go all wrong. Remind him of that, but other than that, I don't think there a lot you can do. Just pick up the pieces when it all goes wrong.