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Argh help
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My cousin is getting married shortly (quick arranged one) and has asked me and my sister to go HOWEVER the invites are just for me and her and no one else as they need to keep the numbers down.
How do i tell/ask Chris without him getting offended? I feel really awkward but i know its nothing personal.
It's already gonna be hard as i HATE his mum (for what she did to my mum when my dad died) so it already means i will have to be polite to her even though i don't like her.
Gah
How do i tell/ask Chris without him getting offended? I feel really awkward but i know its nothing personal.
It's already gonna be hard as i HATE his mum (for what she did to my mum when my dad died) so it already means i will have to be polite to her even though i don't like her.
Gah
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Just tell him that it's a numbers thing and nothing personal, I don't really see the problem.
Just saying it's already gonna be a pain with her there without having to stress if Chris will get offended.
Just wondered if anyone had a nice way of putting it thats all.
I forgot this place was just to be moaned at instead of giving helpful advice.
To be fair there's not much anyone can say. Only you will know what he will respond to and what he won't. Most of the suggestions here would be just to tell him what you have been told, that seems reasonable to me.
I think nearly everyone did offer you advice.
I can't see why he'd be bothered though? Just tell him exactly the reason why he can't go. It's a perfectly good reason in my opinion.
Was waiting for you to have your say.
I would like to go and see him get married, i just don't want the upset. THere are reasons he might be upset which don't wish to go into.
If you can't tell us the full story then we can't help you!
We aren't to know there are other reasons are we?
People are only trying to help. Theres no reason to get funny about it.
Well we aren't to know it's not as simple as that are we. Not mind readers.
And i think your taking this thread slightly too much to heart. No one said you were stupid, people were just trying to help.
Whatever :rolleyes:
Nah your right i ain't offering anymore advice. I'd rather offer advice to someone that actually wanted to listen, not someone that just wanted to moan.
Oh fuck off.
*bump* heehee
I wonder just how often I miss the point entirely, and don't even notice
Tweety - lighten up. You came on here asking for advice and you got it. Even though it wasn't what you wanted to hear, it was all you were able to get from the information you gave in your post. If you are only able to give 10% of the real information, then people will give you advice that is less than 10% applicable.
I think Lacy and Tweet should stop bitching and be having a group hug.