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what do women really want in bed?
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I don't know do they want an hour or hours I can never tell, short thrusts or long deep hard thursts slowly getting faster,please tell me. (I know what to do just want to be more pleasing for my girl friend)
P.S. Any weird and waky stuff to turn her on or get her off more is more than welcome.
THANKS...............
P.S. Any weird and waky stuff to turn her on or get her off more is more than welcome.
THANKS...............
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A hotwater bottle and a nice cup of tea <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
On the question of how long sex should last, well it depends what mood she's in, a guy cuming too quickly can be really annoying but equally a guy who can't cum is just as bad.
Try shallow thrusts with a few deep one's thrown in for good measure!! And rotate as well as going in and out.
Just practice lots - its fun and you'll soon find out what she likes. Try different things and if all else fails just ask her what she wants.
But a safe bet is lots of oral sex - not that many girls cum during penetrartion.
Practice makes perfect - well better!! xx
That would make us dizzy and seems potentially very difficult to execute. <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
Sorry, it's only your second post so I'll stop being 'clever', <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> welcome to TheSite.
Why do you have to be so patronising? She's actually right about the grinding thing, so shows how well you please your women...
Other than that, I find through discussion with my girlfriends that we all like different things, and we have different preferences as to how hard or fast those things are done. There is no magic answer!
Communicate with your girlfriend. Some girls feel embarassed talking about sex, or even don't know what they like until they've tried it, so experiment too and ask her what she feels.
And remember, sex is a two-way thing, so you can always gently suggest ways that she can make it hotter for you too!
Have fun experimenting!!!
Thank you bumble bee, at least someone gets it.
As far as positions go, something that is good but not too challenging is missonary but with the girls legs bent up high (up by her chest) - that helps to hit the illusive g'spot and if the guy gets his hips as high as he can - that stimulates the clit.
xx
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Carriage Return, some women hate cuddly toys. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">