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what do women really want in bed?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I don't know do they want an hour or hours I can never tell, short thrusts or long deep hard thursts slowly getting faster,please tell me. (I know what to do just want to be more pleasing for my girl friend)
P.S. Any weird and waky stuff to turn her on or get her off more is more than welcome.
THANKS...............

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmmm shouldn't this be in the sex forum?! well here goes anyhow.

    A hotwater bottle and a nice cup of tea <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well lots of foreplay to start with, keep it fun, sex shouldn't be serious.
    On the question of how long sex should last, well it depends what mood she's in, a guy cuming too quickly can be really annoying but equally a guy who can't cum is just as bad.
    Try shallow thrusts with a few deep one's thrown in for good measure!! And rotate as well as going in and out.
    Just practice lots - its fun and you'll soon find out what she likes. Try different things and if all else fails just ask her what she wants.
    But a safe bet is lots of oral sex - not that many girls cum during penetrartion.
    Practice makes perfect - well better!! xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by blow kisses:
    <STRONG>And rotate as well as going in and out.
    </STRONG>

    That would make us dizzy and seems potentially very difficult to execute. <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">

    Sorry, it's only your second post so I'll stop being 'clever', <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> welcome to TheSite.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    umm prefebly a man...........
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A mug of hot Chocolate, and a bigger, softer, cleaner version of thier favourote teddy bear
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A mug of hot Chocolate, and a bigger, softer, cleaner version of thier favourite teddy bear
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kirk:
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    Sorry, it's only your second post so I'll stop being 'clever', <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> welcome to TheSite.</STRONG>

    Why do you have to be so patronising? She's actually right about the grinding thing, so shows how well you please your women...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tbh, the grinding thing is pretty good. Just try it slowly and stop if you get dizzy!

    Other than that, I find through discussion with my girlfriends that we all like different things, and we have different preferences as to how hard or fast those things are done. There is no magic answer!

    Communicate with your girlfriend. Some girls feel embarassed talking about sex, or even don't know what they like until they've tried it, so experiment too and ask her what she feels.

    And remember, sex is a two-way thing, so you can always gently suggest ways that she can make it hotter for you too!

    Have fun experimenting!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    2 kirk - rotate ur hips!!! and please don't patronise me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">

    Thank you bumble bee, at least someone gets it.

    As far as positions go, something that is good but not too challenging is missonary but with the girls legs bent up high (up by her chest) - that helps to hit the illusive g'spot and if the guy gets his hips as high as he can - that stimulates the clit.

    xx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Trystar, the best thing to do is talk to your girlfriend about it. Everybody's different, and it's hard to guess what they like.

    Carriage Return, some women hate cuddly toys. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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