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Wanting to try new positions, but which ones?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
hiya well ive got a problem, me and my boyfriend went to his house and he started to finger me, it didnt go so well :( :impissed:. The reason why it didnt go so well was because i had my jeans on (we didnt take it off just incase his bro cam down stairs) and the position we was in. The position was i was sat up and he was sat behind me but it didnt happen. so im asking what positions can we try because both of us want to try new positions to suit the both of us.

Thanks you lot :D

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you're both laying on your back, him on your right hand side (if he's right handed), he can role over towards you and slip his hand down your trousers, if they're undone a bit :yes:

    much easier access if you're laying down than sitting up.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is it easier to do it standing up, cause my mate said it is but i dont see how it is lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    69er?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just go out side. hey, he can take you doggy then....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wear trousers that are looser at the waist too
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah or a skirt if your a skirt wearing kinda girl, I know some arent like me.

    Lying down I have always found most comfortable. You can also snuggle up a bit that way and its nice feeling close like that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We used to do it sitting behind me, on the floor, with a blanket over, watching movies. Back in the day when the parents wouldnt leave me alone in my room and would walk in at any time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/ <-- 100 of them and not-porn :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nihilisticmadman wrote:
    http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/ <-- 100 of them and not-porn :)
    thats a lot of wood ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote:
    thats a lot of wood ;)

    Thats what a girl likes to hear. :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    remotebleeper wrote:
    Thats what a girl likes to hear. :naughty:

    isnt that what a girl likes to see, or say, not hear :P
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nihilisticmadman wrote:
    http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/ <-- 100 of them and not-porn :)

    Oooh I luff you :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Replicant wrote:
    if you're both laying on your back, him on your right hand side (if he's right handed), he can role over towards you and slip his hand down your trousers, if they're undone a bit :yes:

    much easier access if you're laying down than sitting up.

    i agree, always a good way. wear slightly loose trousers if u can, just makes it come comfortable.

    standing up can be good, but its the kind of thing that is better if u know u wont be disturbed or if its just a quick thumble. - passionate and quick. worked for me the other night, just b4 my b/f was going away for 2 weeks :naughty: not that u wanted to know that though. lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My advice.. and im a bloke so not best placed for giving this kind of advice. is:

    be relaxed,
    Stop him if it is uncormfortable.. he wants to please you, not put you through 20 minutes of torture.. good communication is key.
    find what suits you.. and rember to talk to him
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go in your bedroom then you can take her jeans off??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ahh... yeah, you're going to have to find somewhere more private and then go ahead and depants. Not terribly complicated after that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    back in the days of college, when baggy (REALLY baggy) jeans were the thing me and my bf used to sit on the floor off to the site of a corridoor when we didn't have any lessons; we'd sit facing each other he'd stick his hand up inside my jeans. we thought we were being discrete, but with hindsight i think everyone must have known very explicitly what was going on.
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