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Hi I'm 22 and four weeks ago had a drunken fling with my best friend. I'm taking the pill but had been ill during the week before and probably vomited the pill up, we used a condom during sex but we weren't careful at all about the during foreplay although he didn't enter me. I got my period the next day. I havn't had my next period and its a week late, it could be because I messed my pill up though with the illness.
Basically I'm just really worried, I'm planning on doing a test but I would normally turn to him in this type of situation, I just can't bear to tell him. He's the type that is against abortion and I know he'd be really upset if I was pregnant and chose that route, which I not even sure I would, I'm sure he'd be supportive but I'd rather not say anything right now since theres a good chance I'm not. Its also difficult since this was just a one off thing and we went straight back to just friendship after.
The only chance I could be in reality is through the pre-cum but he didn't actually enter me without a condom.
Just after a bit of support really, I dont have a question or anything.
Basically I'm just really worried, I'm planning on doing a test but I would normally turn to him in this type of situation, I just can't bear to tell him. He's the type that is against abortion and I know he'd be really upset if I was pregnant and chose that route, which I not even sure I would, I'm sure he'd be supportive but I'd rather not say anything right now since theres a good chance I'm not. Its also difficult since this was just a one off thing and we went straight back to just friendship after.
The only chance I could be in reality is through the pre-cum but he didn't actually enter me without a condom.
Just after a bit of support really, I dont have a question or anything.
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Give it a few days and see if you get your next one.
Do you wanna be pregnant?
No I don't want to be pregnant. It sounds selfish but I've just started my career and my life is how I like it right now. I don't know how I'd feel if I found out I was though. I know its very unlikely but I just have this little niggle that I might be, I'm going to test anyway to put my mind at rest.
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Doesnt sound selfish don't be silly!!
Thanks for the advice Suzy. Think i'll pop into savers tomorrow, going to have do it on my own which is scary since I'll have nobody to tell when the result comes through. Think I'll go around my best friend's after for a hug either way, he'll not know whats wrong poor thing.
let us know how it goes
Though I was wondering (I'm just curious), is it at all possible to become pregnant due to pre-cum? I mean, how 'dangerous' is the stuff?
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It contains sperm, but I'm not sure exactly how much.
Wow at my age I really should know this stuff
So you can get pregnant. Thats why they say the withdrawal method isn't a reliable form of contraception.
Ah... that makes sense! I always thought it was just because a guy doesn't always know how to control himself... Oh well! Tee hee!
That as well!