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the girl during fingering
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Here's the problem..my b/f wants to finger me and i want him to, but i dont know what to do while hes doing it. i mean..like we were in the car yesterday and he stuck his hand up my skirt and sorta started messing around but i stopped him because i dont know what to do while hes doing it!! do i have to do something back??AHH!!!i'm so confused!! help!
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yeah,i know wot u mean!
i dont know wot u could do while u were in the car,but u could kiss him etc,if u were else where,standing up etc!
i remember being in a bar wiv a few other people,and we were sat at a table,and my bf stuck his hand up my skirt,i jus had to sit there and try an pretend he werent doin it!
wich was very hard seeings as i climaxed!
soz,to much detail!
as for what u could do...try a hand job,usually works!u can do it the same time he is doing u if u want???
how to react...well just let it happen,i never knew wot to do..i dint know if i shud fake noises etc,but in the end it just cums naturally.excuse the pun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"> !!
how old are u?if u dont mind me askin?
If at first you don't succeed, destroy all evidence that you tried.
just let nature take it's course, and if you think it's a pile of anal fudge, ask him to go down on you! If he's any good you'll love it! any woman in the world that's had it will tell you that! There was only one complaint I got, and that was because she had to go home before we'd done! Bugger! Just let yourself go love, but whatever you do, don't do handjobs at the same time as heavy petting with your underclangers. This has been known to cause that evil disease called "CHILDREN".
gt2- can you go for ONE POST without making a sexist comment? Arrgh!
TMC- if you worry about what to do and what not to do, it'll just make you more nervous. Sit back and enjoy it! Relax, it's supposed to be fun =] I usually get WAY too into it and end up making quite a racket, which can get embarassing.
In my experience, things go a lot more smoothly and each person enjoys themselves more if things are kept nice and simple -ie- don't give him a hand job when he's giving you one, you end up concentrating on him and not the great feelings you're experiencing. Let him do his work, then if you feel comfortable enough, do the same to him. If not, don't worry. DON'T let yourself get pressured into doing ANYTHING you don't want to do.
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2. do a love bite on him(somewhere)
3. do sommat on him
4. look as if you are loving it
we're loving it loving it loving it, we're loving it like thaaaaat....
honestly what is the deal with blokes who think theyre really popular and good with girls and sex and stuff who just shove fingers in you? errr.... no!
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lol yes i was, very much so. argh and now MOP to remind me of last night lol..... god... no it wasnt bad actually, i didnt do anything i regret <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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if you want to return the favor, then you'll either want to give him a hand job or oral.
and there are plenty of threads here on how to do both, you just got to search a little bit.
good luck TMC.
I`m a guy and nervousness has some effects on us and lets just say my first time was very nearly a flop cos I was so nervous. She gave me a helping hand though <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
And while I`m here, any tips on how I can get my gf to wear a skirt cos she's sorta sensitive about her weight (she's a size 14) but I think she'd look really sexy, plus we could have a bit of fun if she wears a skirt.
"Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
for instance, don't suggest anything too short immediately. a longer skirt with slits can be just as sexy as anything short.
also, something suggesting simple like a black knee length skirt might make her more interested in trying it.
and if she's not comfortable, then just don't push. she'll think ur telling her something about herself if you keep pusing the topic.
good luck talyn.
And like Calvin said, if she doesn't want to, it's fine. It's her choice. Don't pressure her to do anything she doesn't want to just because you think it's sexy or because you want to have fun.
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