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But that's not the same thing at all.
Who here would put a picture up of themselves looking fat and spotty? I know I bloody well wouldn't. And every single model in the world has pictures taken of them from their most flattering angle, it's nothing sinister.
If she's lying about her size I can see why she did it, but once trust is gone its hard to get it back. I do wonder why the OP is so fixated about dress size though, if you ask something as stupid as that then you're not going to get a 100% honest answer.
And my immediate question would be: if you hadn't seen the label, would you have even noticed she was lying?
Either you like someone or you don't, dress size is irrelevant.
I phrased that badly - i meant to say as well as making it out that she was a lot more petite in conversations.
Aye, fair enough.
But people who only have friends and lovers in their computer are obviously very sad and insecure people anyway, and if shes a big girl she is very probably very insecure about that.
It's very understandable, and if you're lied to its hard to get the trust back. But as I say, I do wonder what the OP's obsession with dress size is all about. Either you like someone or you don't.
If someone over the internet asked me what size i am, i would give a 100% honest answer.
But to be honest, im not sure i would want to speak to someone (let alone meet up) that asks that sort of question.