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The Current State : Warped?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Well, as you know we split up a week ago, 6 days later ( as this happened yesterday)..I saw her and she accused me of heavily smoking weed again and drinking myself into oblivion..that was just the beginning, she asked me how I was feeling so I told her honestly, and then , her KNOWING what pub i was going to that night with my mates, turns up with a group of guys to try and make me jealous, told her to stop being petty, she walked off in a strop..then she text me saying that im emotionally blackmailing her..urrm..wtf? anyone know whats going on? should I send her to the mental clinic? lol

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems like she is having a trouble letting go, try to avoid her for a while, go to an other pub for a bit and what you do doesn't concern her anymore...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just sounds like a typical woman to me. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just completely ignore her, go different places etc. If you take notice of her and show her a reaction you're giving her exactly the attention she wants...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol this story is getting wierder and wierder, today we talked over lunch ( she asked me for a chat, me being a weak individual and lovin her to bits said yes lol ) and things went really well, we both admitted faults..she said she'd been a bitch, i said i'd been a twat, we spoke about what went wrong, and she said "So whats happening then", I said " well, we're talking, better than we were *laughed*, I dno"..she told me some guy had hit her ( I enquired to the bruising on her face ) when he was drunk at the pub, I was enraged and said "IF any guy ever hits you when im near, I will deck the living hell out of him", she kinda gave off a little smile and I said " what, I still love you, I still care about you deeply", and then she said "Why" blah etc etc lol, went on like that, we flirted for a bit, now where do I stand :S?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well.. you obviously still love each other and if you think you can work it out and thats both what you want then go for it I say. I think sometimes a break up can make you stronger!

    but make sure if you do get back together it is for the right reasons,

    good luck! :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what does she want?

    Does she like having a tag along to boost her ego? Or does she genuinely have feelings for you and wants you? If the case is the latter, is she acting appropriately about that? If I fancied someone, I probably wouldn't have broke up with them, but either way - I wouldnt then start hanging out with loads of people to make them jealous.

    But, girls are weird a lot. But it sounds a bit like shes playing a game, trying to keep you interested so shes got the attention but not wanting a relationship with you. She's probably just too cowardly to break it off altogether. But thats just speculation, wouldnt want to interfere, I had a break with my girlfriend and it did us a lot of good. But when we were on our break we both just spent the time missing each other :chin: who knows.
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