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Bit of help please
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Hey, i guess i need a bit of help or advice. I'm not sure if this should go in health, but occasionally these two forums seem to seem to get a bit confused...so if there's a problem please move it.
Anyway, so i've recently started to sleep with my girlfriend, we're both virgins when we started sleeping together, and we've always used condoms, though she's only recently talked about going on the pill. Anyway, she told me tonight that since we first slept together (last week) she's had a pain...down there, especially when she's been going to the toilet, and she doesn't know what it is. Since we were both virgins and have always used protection, i'm guessing it can't be anything too serious, but even so a bit of advice on what it could be would be nice, even so i can just reassure her if needs be. I'm thinking maybe it's because it was her first time, perhaps she is / was sore...but it's been almost a week now. My friends didn't have that much advice on the matter, so i thought i'd ask here.
Apologies if this is rambling / inchorent, it's saturday and i'm drunk
Thanks.
Anyway, so i've recently started to sleep with my girlfriend, we're both virgins when we started sleeping together, and we've always used condoms, though she's only recently talked about going on the pill. Anyway, she told me tonight that since we first slept together (last week) she's had a pain...down there, especially when she's been going to the toilet, and she doesn't know what it is. Since we were both virgins and have always used protection, i'm guessing it can't be anything too serious, but even so a bit of advice on what it could be would be nice, even so i can just reassure her if needs be. I'm thinking maybe it's because it was her first time, perhaps she is / was sore...but it's been almost a week now. My friends didn't have that much advice on the matter, so i thought i'd ask here.
Apologies if this is rambling / inchorent, it's saturday and i'm drunk
Thanks.
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