what else should i know b4 we do it?

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i've asked him to have a blood test b/c he has had many partners (he will be my first) and his last g/f was cheating on him while they were together.

anything else i should know? i'm trying to be responsible and stuff, i want to be able to enjoy it all without worrying about other stuff.

also, noise... the noise your bodies make when they come together. i'd never really thought about it, but... is it distracting?

hmm ok, thanks from a strange Australian...

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Originally posted by limecooler:
hmm ok, thanks from a strange Australian...

YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Another Aussie. HAHAHAHAH...we're taking over thesite now, we are!!! Try and STOP US! :P <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Turtle:
YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Another Aussie. HAHAHAHAH...we're taking over thesite now, we are!!! Try and STOP US! :P <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

as you can tell limecooler, you're not the only strange australian here at thesite. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

and even though shellhead up there couldn't be bothered, let me properly welcome you to thesite. stay a while, it's a good place to be.

as for your question, i think you've done the due diligence here. if fact, you've done more than anyone i've ever known. so if you have the test results and proper protection, there isn't much else to worry about except doing it.

body noises and such are all part of it. then again, if you're worrying about details like these, are u sure ur 100% ready?

if you are, then you just have to go for it. if you're not, then it's okay to keep waiting til u r.

good luck...

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helloooooo fellow Australians, thanks for welcoming me! funny how we come to the UK boards to discuss sex... hehehe!

mmm well I'm not worried about the noise, I'm just curious. I had never even thought about it until a friend of mine said it's the one thing he doesn't like about sex!! This is why you shouldn't listen to other ppl, they get you thinking about things that are totally irrelevent. Still nobody else seems to care so whatever.

Thanks for all your help, maybe I'll see you round on the boards...

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I don't know any other Aussies at The Site..... who are they Turtle?

Just to add to the body noises question, apparently everyone makes them and it can be distracting and/or embarrassing, but since it's normal you shouldn't worry about it.

By apparently I mean I wouldn't know, I got that from a book, blame the author if it's wrong!

And welcome to The Site btw, don't forget to check out the other forums as well because they have some really cool stuff on too. Just saying that because I stayed in the sex one for about a month after I joined before I really discovered the others! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by wildchild:
I don't know any other Aussies at The Site..... who are they Turtle?

me and limecooler. dill :P

and limecooler, i'm aussie yeah, but i live in switzerland, so the UK is the closest civilisation to me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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USE A CONDOM!!!! I always do, without fail. The pill can let you down. just use as many forms of protection as you possibly can. That Disease commonly known as babies could bite you. just make absolutely sure he cares about you enough.

Welcome to thesite. I've not been about long but I can already tell that all these opinions can help a hell of a lot about a hell of a lot of things. I'm thinking of coming here with all my problems you know..

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The only real distracting noises apart from the slapping of skin together may be 'fanny farts' (what a discriptive title) this is only air being pushed into your fanny while he thrusts, its not painful but if hes an alright guy he won't think anything of it. This doesn;t always happen so don't let it put you off. If it does it just means you are banging away at it really rampantly! lol which is all good!

Thats my essay on distracting noises. other distractions include TV. NEVER HAVE THE TV ON DURING SEX! (Unless its porn) because you'll be to busy watching TV and the sex will be crap, play music! (I say porn because it is a sex aid (Helps arousal) but it could be a erotic film).

No other preparations, except... be natural, don't do anything you don't want to, be clean and USE PROTECTION!!

Have fun!

-Insane
PS: Welcome to thesite please feel free to stay. And ignore the one with the shell, we all do. (J/K Turtle we all find you humour very informative and occasionally useful)

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I don't mean to be off putting with anything I just wrote btw! Just saying what I know (and what I know isn't always right)

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Originally posted by Insane:
PS: Welcome to thesite please feel free to stay. And ignore the one with the shell, we all do. (J/K Turtle we all find you humour very informative and occasionally useful)

oiiiiiiiii!!! i'm a loveable cuddly reptile!! u gotta love mee!!!!11

limecooler, u got yahoo/msn msgr or ICQ?

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hmmmmmmm insanes post, brought back memories!! member the post "fanny farts" *chuckling to herself*!

i was soooooo embarrased when this 1st happened 2 me, but now i have been with my bf nearly 15months, i am relaxed infront of him and we can just laugh about it!

limecooler, i wouldnt worry 2 much about it i think u r very wise making him have a blood test and him actually having it done is also a good sign (in my eyes) cos t shows he is prepared 2 do anything 2 prove stuff 2 u.

ne ways let us know how it goes.

luv n stuff jo-lizzie