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Met a girl...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Been playing the field for 7 months. Recently met a girl by chance who I quite like, have stuff in common with. Think could be possible relationship material. Cant work out if she likes me in a platonic way or more. I hung out at her place, shes invited me to a party she knows is taking place and said contact me if you want to do anything together. What do you reckon? Get to know her more and just see what happens?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i would say just see what happens, if you fancy doing something then ring her and see where it goes from there. the best relationships are with people that are also your friends.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah very true, guess Ill just have to do that! Think Ive just completely forgotten how to read things when it comes to attraction. When you come out of a relationship I swear you forget about so many things!
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    melanie wrote:
    i would say just see what happens, if you fancy doing something then ring her and see where it goes from there. the best relationships are with people that are also your friends.

    :yes: that is often the case. Also have a look at thesite's guide to boosting your pulling confidence

    Good luck ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol, when you play the field for so long you're bound to forget the signs..I no I did, and it sucked big time lol! I think she's genuinly interested in you, in all honesty! Just the "contact me if you want to do anything 2gether" sounds very leading, and I think maybe before this party you should ring her up, have a chat and ask her out for a drink or something?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    YES do it... Otherwise you will keep on wondering what might have happened.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She sounds interested to me...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well...the night was pretty good, but nothing happened. Again she said let me know when your next around. Was hard though when all her friends were around. Guess I just dont want to appear desperate. I still cant tell. Think Im shit at this kind of thing!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I hope everything works out for you. she does sound interested. Try to play it cool and go for drinks and see how things go from there
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