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HI, I hope this doesn't sound horrible!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
HI this is my first time on this site, my name is Dave and i am 18 years old, and i was curious about someting. When i hav sex with my girl friend i find it a great turn on if when i am on topof her she reaches around and puts her finger on the hole of my bum.After having a sex a few times with her doing this , i decided to try incerting something into my bum to see if it was nice, and i did find it quite good.I am not gay though but still enjoyed it. What i was wondering was does any other man on here, gay or straight enjoy this too? and does any one know weather u can reach orgasm just through penetration of the anus? I would appreiciate a reply, i hope this isn't too bold a question.
thanx
Dave x

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i aint totally sure of any of those, but i remember it being around here somewhere.

    im sure some of the other members will be of more help than i ever am.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is all down to 'G-Spot' mate, more commonly associated with women, but males have one too which is located in the anus and is known as the prostate gland.

    Basically, when your in the womb certain cells will develop one way if your female and another way if you turn out to be male. In girls, the area that would have been the prostate becomes the G-Spot.

    There is a unique form of pleasure to be gotten from anal stimulation, for a guy or girl. For men this is because of the prostate, which is an important sexual organ and can only be directly stimulated through anal contact, and on women it is because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, making the sensation different and sometimes actually stronger.

    ... and yes you can achieve excellent orgasm through anal stimulation, basically due to the fact that when you cum, fluid is passed over nerve endings (part of the sensation of orgasm) and if you add extra stimulation then well.. you get the picture.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    The reason why lads (mostly straight ones) don't always bring up such issues is because they associate anal stimulation which homosexuality.

    Hope that clears a few things up.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    *Puts on Ali-G voice* - Now I iz off home to take us Julie up da batty <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    [This message has been edited by Justin Credible (edited 17-05-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Justin Credible:
    *Puts on Ali-G voice* - Now I iz off home to take us Julie up da batty <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    lmao...sorry to change the subject but Ali G rules! Did you see when he accepted his Bafta award and he was talking all posh...it was well funny.

    And for your original question...umm...yeah what Justin said <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry, nothing is too bold of a question here! It's good that you're open minded enough to try out 'taboo' ways of pleasuring yourself, but realize that enjoying those feelings have nothing to do with being gay.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I'm bisexual, but i really don't think i would find it that much of a turn on, but you never know. I don't know if i'd be willing to find out tho.


    Blessed Be
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