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i cant stay hard!!!
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I need help. Ok during sex i cant stay erect. Im alright at hte start but after a little while it starts to go abit soft. Am i doing nething wrong or what.
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Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
um.. me thinks this hits a little too close to home for you. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
i'm sorry for the horrible joke dude but i couldn't resist. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
*waits for a torrent of retalitory snapping turtle bites*
seriously though, have you finally met mom's new guy yet?
um.. are u using a condom? that does lessen the sensitivity of the act which might be a cause.
don't know much else than to also say it could be a number of physiological and psychological things as well.
sorry, not enough context there to offer more help dude.
I think thats a bit below the belt Calvin.
[This message has been edited by ElisaKate (edited 18-05-2001).]
agreed, but ur forgiven dude. only cos i love ya. *glares* <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif">
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
agrees and apologises profusely to both elisa and turtle.
*also wonders what you edited out* <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
question though for you elisa, how is him making the comment to alexanderlebbon okay, but my hitting him with it not?
i think neither were particularly offensive - i knew u were joking about me, but i think elisa thought it was below the belt cos of parents relatively recent divorce and the continuing fall out from that.
dont worry mate, i aint hurt, i know it's all in good humour.
as for my comment - that, as well, was supposed to be a joke, however i realised i forgot a few smiley faces and teh "j/k" just to make sure.
or i might be completely wrong.
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
yeah see, i thought u'd appreciate a little off color humor considering how ironic it was that YOU of all people david, made that comment, especially with what u r dealing with. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
so thank you for taking it all in stride and again, sorry if i went to a place i shouldn't have.
and elisa -- i appreciate you sticking up for the shellhead and letting me know i crossed the line. thanks.
see ya round here dude. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
tim
[This message has been edited by Calvin (edited 18-05-2001).]
Yeah, and I edited it because the quote thing messed up.
If you're sure it's not that, I'd go see a doctor, or at least call one up. I know that sounds scary but your problem could be easily fixed by a doc.
As for cock rings: They're supposed to stop the blood from exiting the penis, so they make the penis more erect and they make it stay erect for longer. You have to make sure that you get one that fits correctly because otherwise you could cut off blood flow and mess yourself up. I've never been with anyone who has used one so I don't know any specifics, sorry.
Hope that helps!
VERY Freudian!
My boy is have the same issue and i am willing to do just about anything to help...
we communicate well and have discussed it a bit...but well i feel as though maybe i am doing somthing wrong..he says no..but my god..I have never encountered this..if you find somthing let me know
I'm a girl, so haven't used one, but the guy I'm seeing does and they work for him when he wants to go for longer. Before you try something like that though, see if relaxing a bit or talking about it work. Also, I'd go to the doctor before resorting to things like cock rings and stuff...if there is something wrong it would be better to get it sorted out rather than just ignoring it.
That's just about all I can give you on this one, hope it helps.
Try some psychological techniques, it, thinking of her doing something really horny.
If your mind drifts off to something really bland, ie, school (naff) then its really a question of your not enjoying the sex.
Try to make sex more romantic, exciting and wicked (i mean wicked in a cool way!).
Don't keep doing the same thing over and over again, ie, spending 5 mins pumping her (lol). Try to change positions, or stop and do some really erotic things inbetween to keep you hard.
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