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First Post!!

Hey, This is my first post! And I have one major problem! Ok I am seeing this girl and I have been like seeing for her for nearly 5 and a half years. Amm guys you all know we get sick of the same thing and I have been gettin it on with her big sister! I love her and her sister I dont know what to do could someone please help?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey dude, welcome to the village of the damned or TheSite as its more commonly known.

    You've gotta ask yourself do you actually well and truely LOVE both of these women? If the answer is a resounding YES then I have no idea what you can do. I doubt they would agree on a love triangle <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">

    If the answer is no, then you have to PICK one. By picking the older sister however could cause problems. Firstly your 5 year lovebunny would find out and then so would the rest of the family who you've by now become close to (obviously)
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> and everything will go pear shaped.

    So I reckon you can either stick with your long term spouse or end it with them both. The choice, as they say, is yours

    [ 29-12-2001: Message edited by: The Ghost Of Kurt Cobain ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    eedjit. you've fucked it up royally now u know. nothing u can do, cept keep the pleasure going for as long as possible and then try and minimise the fallout (ie hope to only lose the vital organ, and not to die).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You have to ask yourself WHY you are going to this other girl (her sister) is it because you need variety (perhaps you could spice up your love/sex life with your girlfriend?), is it because you feel that your relationship has come weaker, not as pleasing with your girlfriend? if so you need to talk to her. If you are only doing this because the other girl is available than that perhaps shows that you need to start a new relationship or perhaps loosen the strings with your girlfriend. Perhaps you are tuning to her sister because you feel vulnerable: are you forever jealous of attention that your girlfriend gets? If you have fantasies about a love traingle or such than keep them fantasies. Whta ever you do dont believe that her sister willl ever want a relationship with you, it seems all shes after is fun.
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