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I read them and wasn't happy but in my case, there was nothing I could say because we were no longer a part of each other's lives. You could subtly say, "you know that girl...whats her face, do you still speak to her?"
Alternatively, just leave it and let him be. It doesn't sound like he's doing anything wrong, people flirt. See how you feel about it in a few days - tomorrow is Valentine's Day! You've got him, she doesn't.
I must admit i did this myself, but that was to get the proof wife was cheating, with one of her co-workers (which i got)
I'm sorry to hear you are feeling insecure about your boyfriend and his ex since you read his emails - it's probably a good idea to learn from this experience if you can and take on board what the other's have said already. Have a look at our article on Snooping if you haven't already. I hope you start to feel happier about the situation soon
You did something you shouldn't have done, but it is done. Not telling him would mean you are not honest to him and therefor you can not be trusted.
If you tell him it show that you know you did something you shouldn't have done, but by coming forward with it you show that your are truly honest to him and that he can trust you.
Trust is based on honesty and true, not on lie and hidden facts.