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Can u not be gay but do things with guys?
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I dont think I'm gay but at sleepovers me and my mates masturbate together. Once each other. This doesn't make us gay, does it?
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Well thats your book. But the fact is loads of guys I know do it and some of em are engaged!!
Just because you have had an experiance of what is probably school boy experimental times doesn't mean you are gay.
Believe me you will know if you are gay or not deep down,its just a case of coming to terms with what you want out of life and is all part of lifes rich tapestry.
Good luck with your search within yourself and i hope you find what you want. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
I've done "mutual masturbation" with women, but got no pleasure from my act beyond the pleasure of giving pleasure. Enjoyed receiving at the same order of pleasure as going solo. According to some this is "bisexual" but I wouldn't agree
When ur older youll know better...for now dont worry, just enjoy it <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> Dont rush into saying youre inclined one way or t'other.
I am Bisexual, that I know, but everyone else doesn't need to, hense being open-minded... heh
Theres nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality, hell if you feel like it sleep with that person (use protection tho obviously) and who cares what other people think...
As a mate of mine said (seriously canned 2 weeks ago) "Do what you do, because you are you"
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