Worried about a friend

Former Member

You can worry if you want to, but really, this isn't really any of your business.

I know a friend who's in a very strange relationship, she's got a history of depression and has done some very bizarre things. One friend keeps telling her her relationship is abnormal, and what happens? She's now hiding things from her. Me and another know we can't stop her loving who she does so we leave her to it, even if we don't approve, but we will be there for her if she gets hurt. Who are we to say what she should or shouldn't do? As long as she knows where we stand and that no matter what we think she's our friend, it's up to her to live her life.

Former Member

i've said before, i'm not saying she shouldnt be in the relationship, i just feel she felt she had to more than she wanted to
i keep being slated for 'butting' in so i don't think i'll bother saying anything

Former Member

Ballerina wrote:

so its not normal to be worried about a friend in an online relationship?

Erm I didn't say that.

I'm saying there's no need to be worried. I've explained it already.