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do guys actually think of their girls when ...ahem..

the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
in Sex & Relationships
do any males, sorry or any females actually think of your partners when doing ..anything...not neccessarily sex...
THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION...CAUSE IM SURE AS HELL MINE DOESNT!!!

i like me lyrics lol!!
you know its true cause i see it in your eye...and everything i was bound to do would bring me straight back to you..

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm thinking of my girlfriend when im having sex with her but imalso concentrating hard on pleasing her to no avail so it seems not worthwhile i wouldnt even think of thinking n e thing else y do u think of him?
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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    awww...never ever stop thinking of your gf...ok? sorry.......yeah i think of my bf but...im positive he doesnt think of me...i was just like wondering cause he has this nasty habit of making out as if the world does everything he does so its ok!!!but seriously your gf must be really lucky im telling you....

    ---now my feet dont tiouch the ground...now my feet dont touch the ground..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm... I can remember a quote from 'Queer As Folk' which might be useful here...

    <guy 1> hes your boyfriend
    <g2> No hes not..
    <g1> Look, do you picture him when your having a wank?
    <g2> Noo!?!
    <g1> Then hes your boyfriend

    I'll agree with Jamie tho, when I'm with someone I always concentrate on trying to please that person.
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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Queer as folk gooooooooood
    league of gentlemen better...or is it soorry completely going off the point....
    if this is the case then obviously im with the wrong bloke?lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
    going for a big facee thingy sorry
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i've never actually had sex with my current girlfriend... but when we're playing around i think of nothing else but her.

    If any of you have read my previous threads then you'll know all about my lifelong struggle to try and please her!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    bunny, if your bf doesn't, try talking to him about it. If he doesn't care, maybe it is time to find someone else. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    paranoid bunny, what makes you think your bloke isnt concentrating on you when you do stuff? i mean hes not like saying other peoples names is he or looking around the room like hes bored or something?! thats'a dead giveaway. like some of the others said, you should talk to him if you dont feel like hes giving you his full attention.

    its my experience, and others from thesite (yes and luv_snail too hehe) that when blokes are doing stuff with their gfs, they're concentrating on giving them as much pleasure as possible, which a lot of them prefer to actually receiving stuff themselves.

    if any of the above start happening, the looking round the room/other girls names, then talk to him! it might not necessarily even be a bad thing... i mean ive called people by the wrong names before, NOT during sex before anyone asks lol.. just takes me a while sometimes to cycle through all the names that it might be lol.. yes i am crazy.

    anywya im taking absolute crap now so ill go... i hope you sort it out with yor bf paranoid bunny! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not qualified to comment on this partic topic,

    but i'd just like to say that u sure as hell picked a good name for urself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm in a long distance relationship right now, so while we're not able to doing anything directly, almost everything here, music, sounds, food, tv, magazines, remind me of her.

    i'm always thinking about her. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; like they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

    [This message has been edited by Calvin (edited 17-05-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    like they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.


    or forget.
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    or forget.


    dude, u are waaaaaaaaaay too jaded for someone so young.

    u gotta have a LITTLE faith sometimes, dude.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont think of the bloke, but i personally know y i dont, i think, i dont tend 2 think of n e thing! may b thats y i have had a shite sex life! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    dude, u are waaaaaaaaaay too jaded for someone so young.

    u gotta have a LITTLE faith sometimes, dude.

    probably. im sure there is some deep rooted psycholigical reason. wish i knew what it was.
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well....
    Hate to admit it but I think of doing someone else when having sex.

    There was a time when I thought I was completely in love and only wanted to please her making me kind of nervous.
    But now that im through the "love" phase (don't believe in love), i think of anyone besides that girl. Wether it be a girl from school, Salma Hayek, Sarah Michelle Guellar, Cindy Margolis, and I'm just in heaven.
    I'm not the only guy that does this, and still get no complaints so hell. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As I consider sex to be a matter of mutual gratification, I find the idea of thinking only of yourself to be distasteful.

    If I'm in the mood for selfish sex, I'll have sex with myself - I'm better at it than anyone I've met so far
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm. I think, I myself have suddenly become a paranoid bunny after reading CrazyBoy's comments......I dont like to think my guys thinkin of sum1 else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alley:
    Hmmm. I think, I myself have suddenly become a paranoid bunny after reading CrazyBoy's comments......I dont like to think my guys thinkin of sum1 else.

    God I knoooow Alley! If he's like that well other guys can be like that..I hope my bf isnt thinking of other girls!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    worry not all you paranoid bunnies. not all men are like that.

    I would never, and I mean NEVER think of anyone else when i'm doing stuff with my gf....

    and yes, I am paranoid bunny's bf (but i don't think she's reading this anymore)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ElisaKate:
    God I knoooow Alley! If he's like that well other guys can be like that..I hope my bf isnt thinking of other girls!


    *bites tongue*
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    *bites tongue*


    yeah, bite it till it hurts <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ihave to do everything with the TV and stereo off. they distract me too much. Is it time I looked for a new girlfriend? any offers?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Talking about distractions, does anyone else hate it when pets are in the same room when u are 'getting down to it' ??

    I am sure my cat likes to watch, it is a total turn off.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Absotively Posolutely!! I'm always thinking of my partner when making love to them.
    Blessed Be
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by gt2masta:
    Ihave to do everything with the TV and stereo off. they distract me too much. Is it time I looked for a new girlfriend? any offers?

    oh fuck off.
    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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