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Condom help

Former Member · 2006-01-24 08:12:34

I feel a bit stupid about this, seeing as i'm 25 and have been having sex for 8 months, but i've never used a condom (I came close once a few years back, but it ended in disaster). But now, due to certain circumstances I have to (or go without sex). The trouble is I seem to have this "thing" about condoms, I hate them, the…

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Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

January 2006

my boyfriend had the same problem when we first got together, but now we just kinda get on with it and if he loses his erection i just give him a blowjob, et voila we're ready to go. The best thing i find to try and relax is just trying to breathe deeply and remind yourself that if your gf does laugh, its not malicious and just in good humour, so just laugh with her and get on with it, you're in for a good time anyways

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