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help please girl troubles
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right i have split up with my girl just over a week ago aparently i have done nothing wrong she wont even give me a reason.the thing is she is 10 weeks pregnant with my baby and she wont even speak to me now for some reason.i have tryied going to her house and she wont talk i have tryied txting her and she wont reply i realy want her back but i just seems like im getting knowhere.any one got any advice please?
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Its the same question still. You gave her an ultimatium. She chose, you lost because you were an ass who wouldn't let her have man friends that like to call her. I'm sure the advice will not change. (Except for the fact that you left out the part of you trying to control who her friends are)
And text talk is looked down upon. Please type properly.
Advice isn't always the things that you want to hear. If she said she doesn't want to be with you, just let it go for a bit. She is going thru a tough time. Pregnant and 17 or something. (God, does anybody use birth control anymore) emotional and hormonal. Just let her be. If you piss her off and bother her now, she's going to remember it.
well to me that says you split up with her.
perhaps you should word what you want to say in a way that people can actually understand it and then we might be able to help?
Can't you just leave her alone for a bit? If she has anything to say to you, she'll tell you...
If she doesn't want to talk to you, she doesn't have to! If I was in that predicament I probably only would have gone back to you because I felt like shit, I'm throwing up every morning and I want someone around to blame, so stop hassling her. Chances are she'll be wanting to have the father of her baby around eventually so stop fretting.
PS: She's pregnant. She's 17. She's allowed to be "a bit crazy".
maybe you haven't done anything wrong but she just doesn't want to be with you anymore.
and don't write a letter.
Since when did not talking to someone atuomatically means not being friends? :rolleyes:
let us know how u go....
good luck
i dont know about you but when i get a new mobile number i usually do a general message, something like 'hey folks, its _____, just to let you know my new number.' and then send it to everyone in my phone book.
you could always do that, then she wont feel like you're hassling her cos itll be like you're sending the message to everyone not specifically her. just an idea.
apart from that i agree with everyone else, give her some space and dont get in touch, give her a chance to work out how she feels or you could lose her altogether.