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so what exactly turns you on?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    TheSite would close down if nobody opened up and discussed. Yes, it is personal, but isn't everything in this forum?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    Stargalaxy, all due respect here, but you are a tit. :)
    :heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    Stargalaxy, all due respect here, but you are a tit. :)
    Feeling's mutual, Skive.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well no one else seems to have a problem answering, we all get turned on by different things. If it's too personal then don't answer, simple as. I don't think its any more personal than some of the other threads around here about relationships or sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    I liked these ones. God, I should stop thinking stuff like that, it'll get me in trouble :p.
    ooh ive got some like that but theyre in dark red without tassles. Ive got the ankle ones too. theyre cool.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like girls who liked to be dominated, like rough sex. But I wouldn't go as far as handcuffs and other instruments, really tacky imo.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rainbow brite wrote:
    ooh ive got some like that but theyre in dark red without tassles. Ive got the ankle ones too. theyre cool.
    I'm in two minds about the ankle ones. They look REALLY uncomfortable...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    turlough wrote:
    I like girls who liked to be dominated, like rough sex. But I wouldn't go as far as handcuffs and other instruments, really tacky imo.
    yeh i've been hancuffed and have hancuffed someone but they really didn't live up to my expectations. its much better to be held down.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    Stargalaxy, all due respect here, but you are a tit. :)


    agreed.

    if you don't want to answer it or find it too personal then bloody well don't answer it you ninny.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A bit of rough and tumble never cause any harm (if it has, then stories can be saved for another topic). Besides, it's always good to kiss things better...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    chaos_insomniac wrote:
    like hairy arms, manly hands,
    :thumb: :yes:
    a good chest never goes amiss either. as is a hot manly voice/accent.
    and the sound of a man's voice as heard through their chest. :heart:

    but big eyebrows? are we talking Gallager or Healey
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Love guys who actually make noise during sex. I'm with Violette on this one, when a guy moans, oh yes.

    And I love it when a guy just pulls my hair randomly during sex and starts getting dirty.

    Love a guy that smells nice and guys who kiss good.

    An when they tickle me gently after, the tingles are great.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds a bit wierd as turn ons go, but i love waking up next to someone in the morning...i love morning sex when you've only jsut woken up
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kirsten wrote:
    Sounds a bit wierd as turn ons go, but i love waking up next to someone in the morning...i love morning sex when you've only jsut woken up
    i would have to agree that morning sex is the best. especailly if it makes you late for work and is kinky morning sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Running hands through hair when kissing
    Touching my/his tummy
    When you really like someone and you're just lile leaning on them/sittin on them whatever and you tingle
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    stargalaxy wrote:
    Ballerina, all due respect here, but that's an extremely personal question.

    Yeah, and it was answered.
    I do rather have a penchant for redheads...

    That was lame.

    I broke a pair of Ann Summer's handcuffs. True fact. I always prefer being the dominant one, though.

    Franki, I bet you're very kinky. You're all shy and quiet, and it's always the quiet ones;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote:
    Franki, I bet you're very kinky. You're all shy and quiet, and it's always the quiet ones;)
    :lol: I'm not THAT quiet ;(.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im with the whole kissing of neck thing and ears, its nice when someone breathes hot air past your ear too.

    also the hands in hair thing when kissing...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like kissing on my collar bone and right by my underwear line, by my hip bones. Turns me on :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just lying down together is good and also kissing her oooo sooo gooood :yum:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    I'm in two minds about the ankle ones. They look REALLY uncomfortable...
    Theyre not uncomfortable. Dont use them very often though. Prefer being just held down but do like the cuffs and love being tied up every now and again too
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Basic Instinct wrote:
    Love guys who actually make noise during sex. I'm with Violette on this one, when a guy moans, oh yes.

    And I love it when a guy just pulls my hair randomly during sex and starts getting dirty.

    Love a guy that smells nice and guys who kiss good.

    An when they tickle me gently after, the tingles are great.
    All those things are damn good :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rainbow brite wrote:
    Theyre not uncomfortable. Dont use them very often though. Prefer being just held down but do like the cuffs and love being tied up every now and again too

    Holding down seems more dominant, it's great.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dinted wrote:
    im with the whole kissing of neck thing and ears, its nice when someone breathes hot air past your ear too.

    also the hands in hair thing when kissing...

    :yes:

    when he whispers roughly in my ear how much he wants to have sex with me :hyper: wow

    and when he runs his fingers down my arms and up across the back of my shoulders, down the other arm and back again... very sensual. gives me shivers :love:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    I liked these ones. God, I should stop thinking stuff like that, it'll get me in trouble :p.
    Yeah, they're kinkier, and more practical,than handcuffs. Useul feature of the strap, like a leash, or for tying up. :naughty:
    There are some similar ones made of neoprene, with velcro fastenings. Can be adjusted precicely,and released quickly if necessary. :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I absolutely love someone touching my face or running their hand through my hair when kissing me.
    I love tongues and - dare I admit this?!! - biting. Once me and the guy I was with got a bit carried away and I was covered in bruises (from biting!) for weeks. Need to be careful with that one. But I still love it!
    I like talking dirty, although I know it isn't everyones cup of tea. Sometimes it just slips out!!
    My other biggest turn on has to be when I go down on a fella, and he tells me how he's enjoying it, puts his hands gently on my head to push... LOVE IT.

    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mr_Wobble wrote:
    Yeah, they're kinkier, and more practical,than handcuffs. Useul feature of the strap, like a leash, or for tying up. :naughty:
    There are some similar ones made of neoprene, with velcro fastenings. Can be adjusted precicely,and released quickly if necessary. :naughty:
    Oooooh they sound fun :hyper:.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i love scratching, biting, and general rough play. i also love spooning, im not sure why, i just really love it, just lying there being close, never fails to turn me off, even after a sesh, 5 mins of spooning and im ready to go again
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    koe_182 wrote:
    i love scratching, biting, and general rough play. i also love spooning, im not sure why, i just really love it, just lying there being close, never fails to turn me off, even after a sesh, 5 mins of spooning and im ready to go again

    Wanna get married? :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My boyfriend loves spooning too and so do I its just nice to be so close to each other.
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