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y do i feel like i need....
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can any one tell me why i feel like i need a wee when i have sex with my boyfriend?? is this normall? 
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Does this always happen or has it just started recently? If recently, have there been any changes with your bladder? I got that feeling when I was suffering a bladder infection.
It's from this site and it might be a good place to start.
Pressure on the bladder. Completely normal. If you're uncomfortable, try going toilet
Cross-section of a woman's pelvis showing the vagina (A),
bladder (B),uterus (C), cervix (D) and rectum (E).
Sorry to drag this picture up, but anyway. When he enters from behind, his penis is coming in at an angle in that it's headed directly for your bladder. On the front wall of the vagina there is apparently a 'g spot' which women often enjoy stimulation on. A good way to find this spot, is to have him insert his fingers into you and 'push' upwards (i.e. into the front of your tummy) and it will REALLY make you feel like you need to pee. But, lots of women enjoy it, and sometimes even partially pee during sex, when a little bit of its urine and some of its the natural lubricant, and can project this.
If you're intrigued, search google for 'female ejaculation'
However, as some have pointed out, there can be other causes, and if you believe that you need to pee all the time and only pee a little bit, and it hurts, theres a chance you could have a urine infection. Which hurts
Unless there is some medical reason, then its just a case of going to the bathroom before hand. Some men find that they need to go after they have had sex too, unless they do before hand too.
Definately, though its different for a guy. Because their urethra passes semen through it during ejaculation, after sex they get a 'pee' instinct (along with 'sleep' lol) so that the urine can wash out semen and sperm, because if its left in there it can cause loads of nasty stuff for a guy. Its also good practice for girls to pee after sex too (where they can) because any bacteria from the vagina that gets into the urethra can fester and cause a variety of infections (most commonly thrush).
Girls needing to pee during sex is caused (from what I can see) by pressure on the bladder, and squeezing.
Yes its always a good idea to pee straight after sex if you feel the need as urine may flush organisms out of the urethra, which can help prevent women from getting bladder infections.
i rarely need to after sex
and if its due to gspot stimulation then just ride it out for 30 seconds and it'll pass ..
.. and (hopefully) in the end you'll have a mind blowing orgasm and theres always the possibility of female ejaculation!
Just sucks having to wait about 5 or 10 minutes to be able to pee comfortably