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Heart or head?
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I always thought I was a romatic type of person and would always follow my heart or my gut instinct, especially when it comes to girlfriends. But Ive realised over the last year or so that Im not that type of person at all. Now Im pissed off.
In my present situation Im wondering if Im being mature, sensible and cautious or foolish, stubborn and afraid!
Can anyone here really claim to let their heart rule their head? I need inspiration to make a lifechanging decision!
Captain Sensible.
In my present situation Im wondering if Im being mature, sensible and cautious or foolish, stubborn and afraid!
Can anyone here really claim to let their heart rule their head? I need inspiration to make a lifechanging decision!
Captain Sensible.
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BUT that never works out and the only girls i ever liked seriously were as a result of my heart not my head telling me what to do! Ok i been left heartbroken...but it was worth it when it was working...
Go with your heart
if so follow your heart even when it doesn't make sense, your insticts will always guide you the right way, your head just confuses you.
Obviously you gotta think at certain times, but once you make a habit of relying on your head to decide whether something was good or right or sensible, you could end up having an argument with your heart; and if it goes on you're simply going to break.
Thats just my experience and i can tell you that i let my head have an opinion far too much.
Your head will lie to you; your heart will not.
Whats the decision (if you dont mind me asking)? Sometimes the question is far more important than the answer.
Oh and thanks for this thread; now that ive reread what i just wrote its sorted my current problem out completely and it sound like i may have gone through the same sort of thing.
Its all down to you mate, noone can tell you what to do its a decision u gotta make for yourself....
Good luck x
My advice would be not to think about it too much and just go with it, if it works out great, if it doesnt there are worse things that could happen right?!!
To sum up Im thinking of giving up everything and following my heart across the world. I feel like I have a winning lotto ticket and its just out of reach. Sounds daft but thats how I feel every day since my girlfriend and I split up.
But its just such a risk that my head keeps butting in and saying "your an idiot - what if youre wrong?"
I really want to just say sod it - I'm going - but maybe this time my head is right...