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Hi all,
about 4months ago i my wife walked out after having an affair (been together for 4yr in total), we hadn't had sex for about 4 or 5 months before we split. I've now met someone else and we're startign to have sex. the sex is great and she's really enjoying it (as am i), but theres one problem, i cant cum while we having sex, i get the point i can feel i will but then nothing happens. my new lover is understanding but think its starting to get to her and she feels its her fault.
can anyone offer me some advise please.
about 4months ago i my wife walked out after having an affair (been together for 4yr in total), we hadn't had sex for about 4 or 5 months before we split. I've now met someone else and we're startign to have sex. the sex is great and she's really enjoying it (as am i), but theres one problem, i cant cum while we having sex, i get the point i can feel i will but then nothing happens. my new lover is understanding but think its starting to get to her and she feels its her fault.
can anyone offer me some advise please.
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relax and it will happen eventually. That's all you can do.
Also perhaps bring the subject out in the open with your girlfriend to reassure her that it's not her fault.
good luck hugs to you icegem