How do I get him to leave me alone?

BillieTheBot

There's someone I know who keeps asking me out. The thing is, he won't take 'no' for an answer and has now asked me if I want to 'shag' him. I've told him no several times but he still won't leave me alone. Now, it's easy to say 'just stay away from him' but I have exactly the same timetable as him - meaning that I HAVE to see him everyday. (Not meaning I talk to him everyday though)

So, what really is the best thing to do? And yeah, I know he'll get bored eventually...

Former Member

Ignore him. If he asks you to shag him, say nothing. Its rude, but I have had to do it before, and im sure he will eventually get the message.

Former Member

ignore him, as chan-chan says, and failing this try slagging him off loudly either as he walks past, or his mates do. He'll soon see you aren't interested!! he he
seriously though, if you've told him no, you cant do much more than wait for him to get bored of asking! sad really!

Former Member

Having been here before, I *should* really know what to do...
Anyway, I'll ignore him like it has been suggested already...
And slagging him off behind his back is evil.

Former Member

Dont slag him off, it will only be making things worse. Try a polite but firm, no thanks im not interested.

Former Member

chan-chan wrote:

Ignore him. If he asks you to shag him, say nothing. Its rude, but I have had to do it before, and im sure he will eventually get the message.

If I ignore him, I have a friend of his (who also fancies me) having a go at me...

Former Member

Tell him that he is a sad, pathetic little boy that needs to get a life. Then go on to tell him that you want him to leave you alone, if it continues try telling a teacher.

Former Member

Dont matter. Ignore him and the mate. Seriously, to ignore is the best insult.

Former Member

Chart Freak wrote:

If I ignore him, I have a friend of his (who also fancies me) having a go at me...

^^^^

Former Member

imho i would suggest that the next time something like this happens to say very loudly or even shout at him something along the lines of "why dont you just f'**k off you f**king sad pathetic w**ker!! and your d**k sucking little friend can stay the f**k away from me as well or my cousin is going to batter the f**k out of both of you!!!"
Regardless of if you even have any cousins this should do the trick.
Seriously, threats and public humiliation will work a lot better than a polite 'no thank you'