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What has happened to virginity???
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Hi, im 19. I lost my virginity a year ago. Alot of people when i was at high school, lost it at around 14,15. I chose to wait until I found the right person and was completly ready. Alot of my friends who lost it young, regret it and wish they had waited, and from reading the posts here, I can see alot of you do too. Isnt virginity supposed to be cherised? But nowadays as suppose its seen as "dorky" to be a virgin, why do teenagers feel the need to waste themselves on drunken nights in bushes!? Good for them if they are in a loving relationship and really want it, but too many people are just out to shed the label of virgin! Even people selling there virginty on ebay! Why has it become such I thing people are desperate to lose?
btw, i think you can guess i dont like much of American Pie.
btw, i think you can guess i dont like much of American Pie.
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My partner has twin 14 year old step sisters, and I mean just fourteen. One of them has sex on a regular basis, and not with a steady partner, and although we do not know for sure we are quite certain the other one has too. I know many of you would think this is none of my business, but we look after them on a regular basis, over fortnights and even a month at times, and we have to treat them the same way as their parents do (my partners dad and his new wife.) This means on weeknights they are allowed out until 10pm, and on weekends, or if they have no school (like this week) they have a 2AM curfue! I'm afraid to say, it's attitudes like this which are constantly lowering the age that kids are having sex.
2AM at 14 :no:
I wasnt allowed out till that time for atleast another 3 years and that involved my parents knowing where i was at all times. Have you ever thought of speaking to there dad and step mum about it? Seems strange that they should be allowed out so late.
Personally i dont think its that bad for say a 15 year old boy or girl to go out and have sex so long as there safe and with a partner, Times are changing and we cant just say its not going to happen. Some people just mature quicker than others, at 14 i wasnt ready for sex but then again i had always felt a little behind when it came to doing things with girls. Some other people by the age they are 15 are ready for it, be it the way they were brought up or the fact there body has matured quicker than others and they have been more intersted in sex from a younger age.
I do still find it worrying though that 14 year old girls are having sex with multiple partners.. :eek2:
Never mind ayy.,
she lost it when she was 13/14 i think
now i think that is definetely wrong
a) she is shallow to go with someone just for those two reasons
a 35 year old has to be sick to want to go with at 16 year old
I think she should be thinking what a man that old is doing with an underage girl.
What isn't OK, that young people shouldn't have sex for fun. You don't have to remain a virgin to avoid STI's or pregnancy!
Exactly, I think people like that are disgusting, it's close to pedophilia imo
Your off your tits mate. What's wrong with having sex for fun?
There's a girl like this in my school .. she apparently lost it on a park bench at twelve and is currently dating some 25 year old..
There've been so many rumours about her.. she's been with this guy.. she did this to this guy.. she's pregnant .. etc.. I never believed it - but there are even videos..
:yuck:
I think she even enjoys the Slag status she has at our school..
like just today some 13 year old year 9 walked past in fishnets and her shirt showing her (rather nasty) belly
the year 9s were spending a day doing some drama thing so alot of the girls were walking round in tiny vest tops and it was freezing
im sorry they looked like baby sluts
of course its not! If a 45 year old was pervin over a 15 year old i would still call it pedophilia
I assume if it was a 50 year old "perving over" a 20 year old you'd be fine with it?
There's the risks of STDs and unwanted pregnancies for a start.
If you take precautions then that aint going to be a problem is it?
Sex is more than just procreation.
I agree with everything you've said in here. Sex if fun and enjoyable. There are risks with it, but you take precautions. Every hobby has risks, you could enjoy reading then one day get a bad paper cut develope gangreen and die.
Besides dolphins, humans are the only ones who fuck for fun, take advantage of that. Not everybody has a working sex drive, take advantage that you do. You can view sex as a fun passtime, or you can see it as the wacko mother in Carrie did. You can see it as somewhere in the middle, each to their own. You can save yourself till your old and gray or fuck anything that moves. You can do what you want when you want but you can't deny that sex is ment to be fun. Sex is ment to be enjoyable and is ment to be done!
People go around and make out with everything and nobody ever seems to have a problem with that, fucking is much more fun than kissing so why not go around and do that.
All animals have sex for recreation.
Have you never of things called condoms?
Some people man... :banghead:
I lost my virginity a few months back (15). I don't regret it, I wasn't pressured and I love my boyfriend of now 11 months. I think as long as people aren't following the crowd (like my friend is.. she wants to lose her virginity in a toilet with a random..) then it's fine by me.. as long as they're not 10 year olds of course :yeees: