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Open the door!
BillieTheBot
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I know this is a very old subject, but I think it's still valid today...
Question for the women: When a guy holds open a door for you, what do you think? Do you reckon "that's very polite of you, thank you" or "patronising sexist bastard"?
I'm only asking as recently I had the misfortune to hold open a door for a "wrong 'un". She proceeded to go on a foul-mouthed (and most unladylike ) rant about how much of a sexist pig I apparantly was and how I was somehow responsible personally for thousands of years of "female oppression". Is this how women really think?
Question for the women: When a guy holds open a door for you, what do you think? Do you reckon "that's very polite of you, thank you" or "patronising sexist bastard"?
I'm only asking as recently I had the misfortune to hold open a door for a "wrong 'un". She proceeded to go on a foul-mouthed (and most unladylike ) rant about how much of a sexist pig I apparantly was and how I was somehow responsible personally for thousands of years of "female oppression". Is this how women really think?
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I will always hold a door open for someone, male or female, child or elderly etc. It is only good manners.
I think that woman was completely rude.
If someone holds a door for me, I just think it's polite, no matter who it is.
i hate it when people go out of a door in front of me and just let it shut, tis so rude
And that's how I think of it. I will hold doors open because I believe that it's the right think to do. I don't care whether it's a man or a woman who will come through the door next, I can't really imagine that either of them would prefer to have the door slam shut into their face.
And well, frankly, if you don't want the door held open for you, then after you've taken it from me you can always shut if yourself before you walk through, no?
With my gf's I always walk ahead and hold the door for them as they walk through, my ex used to rush ahead and do the same for me when we next came up to a door, I thought that was nice!
Sadly so can i.
I try to hold the door open for anyone I can, its a nice politce jesture.
If you dont like it, your problem your a grumy sod...
(I'm just kidding around)
Well, exactly. It is just bad manners to go off on one over something as silly and trivial as this.
Unless I open the door, sneak in and quickly shut it while my boyfriends or dads hand or somebody is like inside the door but the rest is out. Thats just funny, then i laugh.
:yes:
it's just polite. man, woman, beast, if i have an open door and someone behind me wanting to go through it, i'm hardly going to shut it in their face.
I'd hold a door open for anybody who happens to be near or behind me. It doesn't cost a thing to be polite and there is no excuse for bad manners.
Oh I totally agree.
I dislike also though, when you do do something nice as hold the door open or anything like that, the people who just walk right thru it and ignore you.
A thank you is always appropiate. Maybe I'm just a bitch, but I find it rude when people do not say thank you, even for small matters like that.
of course you would, dirty manc :P
That woman really had some issues. Perhaps her brother stole her pacifier when she was a baby.
And I concur. I hold doors for boys and girls, never had a complaint. Normally a mumbled thanks or a quick 'ta'.
Reminds me of when I used to work at Tesco and I'd just got off work and was filling up the car at the petrol station (obviously). I rekon the problem was that I still had my Tesco shirt on but I was just going into the shop bit to pay when I saw a guy on the forecourt coming in aswell. He was carrying his little boy in his arms so I thought I'd be nice to him and hold the door. The fucker walked slowly and then completely blanked me as he passed me. Not a word or even an aknowledgement came my way.
I swear his kid was the one who saved him because were it not for his kid, that twat would have got a faceful of door in seconds flat.
I do think a lot of people are losing their manners. For me, they are very important. That's not to say that I lift my little finger when drinking or anything silly like that but things like letting women pass through doors etc. first and holding doors open for whomever. Little things like that don't cost shit but some people just can't be bothered and it makes me sad because if such things continue, we'll lose our reputation as the politest nation in the world which, after years of travelling, we still have.
Just like when I used to work at the pub and, if I was having a bad day, I would refuse service to people who didn't say please.
Bullshit! Have you ever been to Russia?? Plus a slight generalisation for a country spanning 11 time zones and containing 150 million people.
people rarely say thankyou let alone hold doors open.