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Not lasting!!
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I used to have sex ALOTT!! Was always ok, but did take viagra a bit... Well, I left uni and got a job and dont have loads of free time like I used to... A month without sex passed by and I had a drunken 1 night stand where I used a durex performa condom, lasted ages, no worries... Well, it got to the point where I didn't have sex for something like 5 months! I met with an ex and had sex but lasted about 1 min!! Was a bit worried as i took half a 100mg viagra tab..
OK, So since then another 4 months passed with no sex which is around now.. I started having sex with a friend who is cool, but even when takin viagra im only lasting a few seconds!!!
What the hell is wrong?????? In the year I have hardly had sex, I've been holding myself back so my numbers dont shoot up, but i have been doing a fair bit of oral sex with girls.. I have not been wanking for near a whole week on alot of occassions as im so busy or just dont have a chance..
Im worried as a girl i've been seeing on and off for near a year now who is the most stunning girl ever is going to be having sex with me and i know i wont be able to meet her expectations..
What is wrong? Why am I only lasting a few seconds, why does viagra not work anymore.. I need to last longer.. I've tried thinking of random things when i have ex but it dont work so surely im not getting tooo into sex..
You think I shud just keep trying and gettingback into the swing of sex with this friend and build my staying power up??
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I really worry and have lost interest in sex!! I dont believe the viagra has messed me up, i think its a mental thing..
I used to have sex ALOTT!! Was always ok, but did take viagra a bit... Well, I left uni and got a job and dont have loads of free time like I used to... A month without sex passed by and I had a drunken 1 night stand where I used a durex performa condom, lasted ages, no worries... Well, it got to the point where I didn't have sex for something like 5 months! I met with an ex and had sex but lasted about 1 min!! Was a bit worried as i took half a 100mg viagra tab..
OK, So since then another 4 months passed with no sex which is around now.. I started having sex with a friend who is cool, but even when takin viagra im only lasting a few seconds!!!
What the hell is wrong?????? In the year I have hardly had sex, I've been holding myself back so my numbers dont shoot up, but i have been doing a fair bit of oral sex with girls.. I have not been wanking for near a whole week on alot of occassions as im so busy or just dont have a chance..
Im worried as a girl i've been seeing on and off for near a year now who is the most stunning girl ever is going to be having sex with me and i know i wont be able to meet her expectations..
What is wrong? Why am I only lasting a few seconds, why does viagra not work anymore.. I need to last longer.. I've tried thinking of random things when i have ex but it dont work so surely im not getting tooo into sex..
You think I shud just keep trying and gettingback into the swing of sex with this friend and build my staying power up??
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I really worry and have lost interest in sex!! I dont believe the viagra has messed me up, i think its a mental thing..
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Anyways, let me ask you this: in those months that you did NOT have sex, did you masturbate? You're probably releasing early simply because of being out of routine. And it's also true that the first ejaculation is always easier and quicker to achieve. For example, say you have sex and come for the first time tonight. About an hour later you have another go at it, this time it'll take a bit longer to finish.
In the mean time just get a thicker condom, or one advertised to "desensitize" your penis. Then in the middle of sex switch to a normal condom.
I didn't really 'do myself' in the time i wasn't having sex, so have just lost touch with it all, but i've changed that now
don't think it's anything to do with being circumsized, tbh.
I'm going to agree with that one. I've never witnessed a man who wasn't cirmcumsized and they've never had problems. Personally, just reading about fucking for 40 minutes every time makes my vagina hurt.