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Ex dropping hints
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Ok some may remember me making a post about being worried about my ex and stuff.
Well he's been back on msn recently and we've been nattering away like we used to do before we went out. He also has said it was a mistake dumping me, and when i moan about how shitty my town can be he said he'd still live here. And i've always wanted to live on the coast (he does) so he's been hinting that it's nice there and stuff. I don't think he's actually expecting me to move or anything. But i really do think he'd want me back if we lived close. And I probably would too.
Any thoughts?
Well he's been back on msn recently and we've been nattering away like we used to do before we went out. He also has said it was a mistake dumping me, and when i moan about how shitty my town can be he said he'd still live here. And i've always wanted to live on the coast (he does) so he's been hinting that it's nice there and stuff. I don't think he's actually expecting me to move or anything. But i really do think he'd want me back if we lived close. And I probably would too.
Any thoughts?
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Why did you guys split up?
i havent seen him for over a year
i havent spoken to him on the phone since my birthday
i'm not going to go falling back into his arms like this am i? :yeees:
but how is he supposed to act on it?
He has been out of sight for over a year, and you've spoken very few times by the sounds of it. Those aren't the actions of someone who is serious about rectifying things, despite the distance. A person would have to do a hell of a lot more work if they wanted to win back my affections if I felt the same way too. Saying living in a specific location would be nice etc, would not wash.
But that's just me, and you did ask for our opinions. I gave you mine. As hard as it can be, I'd think about taking serious steps about moving on from this - this is not the sort of thing you'd want to get your hopes up for, it may just end up breaking your heart over and over again.
See how it goes.. Maybe it'll be a good oppourtunity for you both to work out how you do feel and work out what you want to do. I hope it all works out.