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I don't like being licked out
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When I was 14 my first experience being fingered wasn't pleasant, my boyfriend at the time - the gent he was, went round telling everyone how hairy I was down there and made me feel extreeeeeemely self conscience for years about my body..
Since then I've hated boyfriends going down on me even though 6 years on I'm relatively hair free (apart from what I like to leave on) but I have a fear that someone is going to turn round and tell me I smell or something. I know it's ridiculous, but I've only ever had one amazing experience of someone going down on me, I didn't have to direct him or anything he just seemed to know what he was doing.
Lately the missus has been getting annoyed that I don't let him down there, but the fact of the matter is he's no good at it and I don't like the feeling I get when he does...I can't explain to him how I like it because, I don't know how my last boyfriend made it feel so amazing...
Do any other girls not like their blokes going down on them? Am I just weird for not wanting my boyfriend down there? :rolleyes:
Since then I've hated boyfriends going down on me even though 6 years on I'm relatively hair free (apart from what I like to leave on) but I have a fear that someone is going to turn round and tell me I smell or something. I know it's ridiculous, but I've only ever had one amazing experience of someone going down on me, I didn't have to direct him or anything he just seemed to know what he was doing.
Lately the missus has been getting annoyed that I don't let him down there, but the fact of the matter is he's no good at it and I don't like the feeling I get when he does...I can't explain to him how I like it because, I don't know how my last boyfriend made it feel so amazing...
Do any other girls not like their blokes going down on them? Am I just weird for not wanting my boyfriend down there? :rolleyes:
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whats not to like?
:yes:
although i guess if youve had a bad experience in the past...
the only way hes going to get better is if you try and tell him how you like it. or let him practice... you're lucky he's willing to do it in the first place!
yep, cut out the middleman.
You need to get over this. One really has nothing to do with the other. You were with a jerk that would broadcast his sex with you. Sex is, or should be, a private matter between two people. Where this "a-hole" liked a girl hairless others may prefer hair. It's totally subjective. In my opinion you need to upgrade your partners and they will give a hoot about hair or no hair. It's not your role in life, or shouldn't be, to conform to anyone's standards except yours. Find someone that will accept you for who you are!
My boyfriend is brilliant and our sex life rocks, so it isn't a matter of me upgrading partners.
Thanks for the replies everyone :thumb:
Duh, no one HAS to like it.
Why did you register just to comment on a 6 year old thread? >.>
Going to close it now.