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Am I being stupid?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I feel pretty stupid asking this question, but it's been niggling at me for a while: How "safe" is it pregnancy/STD wise to spend the night with someone, naked, if there is technically no sex involved? Should I get on the pill to be sure?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok...first off, do u mean just lying side my side, naked? no sexual acts at all?

    then pregnancy ur pretty safe, unless he gets so turned on by u being there naked that he cums. but even then, highly unlikely.

    STD wise, im hardly an expert, but i don't know of any STDs that can aren't passed on thru sex...thus the name, SEXUALLY transmitted diseases.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What Turtle said.

    What do you mean TECHNICALLY no sex? You mean not intercourse, but other stuff like blow jobs or whatever??? If you're not actually having sex, then I'd say you were about 99% safe as far as pregnancy's concerned. There's always that tiny chance though, of (hick hummm) his semen hitting the spot via fingers, or whatever. Was that too graphic?!

    hope you have fun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not too graphic. been over this b4 a million times. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    but yeah, what i said <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; and elvis, i spose.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers guys....well, it's been *techically* no sex yet but he has been pretty turned on, and since you read about pre-ejaculation sperm or whareveer, I thought I'd better ask...sounds a bit thick, especially coming (no pun intended) from an 18 yr old, but I've never actually come across a similar question
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's pretty safe, but talk to him to be sure. Make sure that if he comes you clean up all of the sperm and wash your hands, etc. I wouldn't go on the pill if you're not having sex because it really messes with your hormones and isn't that good for you... it should be used only if you absolutely have to, not 'just in case'.
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