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Gone off sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
This is probably gonna be really boring but its causing me grief because i just can't get arroused enough to have sex with my boyfriend. We have been together 15 months now and have had brilliant sex up until now. We have tried having sex several times in the past two weeks and i just can't get wet enough and its bothering me and him as he thinks it is his fault. Thing is it isn't!. My bf is being really supportive but i know its bothering him. I dont know what the problem is, think it might be stress( A levels coming up)! Just wondered if any of you have ever had the same problem and if you know any way to restart my sex life.
This post is probably really stupid but it is causing lots of probs.
Please help me
Love Lil Teapot xx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">P

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I have a better idea. Why not just never have sex again? A lot less hassle.

    (The cynicism will hopefully fade in time).

    Perhaps leaving it a little while would be the best medicine? If you keep trying, you're just going to worry about it more and more and then there's even less chance of success...

    *|* Chica *|*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably due to stress due to A-Levels coming up...

    Stress also causes insomnia, lack of appertite and mood swings.. but then so do some other things :P

    Can also be down to a hormonal balance change.. it will come back, just give it time and enjoy the break <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im sure it's nothing to worry about. u still really like your b/f and u don't think it's got anything to do with him.
    it could be just down to your own body. hormones, stress etc etc that makes you not up for sex. give it a while and see what happens. reassure your b/f that it isn't his fault. for the meantime, enjoy doing other small things like cuddling etc. who knows? maybe one nite you will all be up for sex again! sometimes your body just needs time to recharge it's batteries!!

    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok welli went off sex for a while and i told my bf and he thought it was his but it wasnt i dont know why but i cudnt get wet enuf either but we tried doing it in more adventurous places the kitchen table in the garden etc may be u shud try wot i did love fairy pie
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle in another thread that someone had dragged up:
    dude. post. dead.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    oh yes wildchild and turtle.

    grrrrrr thats what i h8 the most about newbies, the way they dig up ALL the old topics. first talyn now fairy pie... ENOUGH!!!

    I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
    ~ the late, great Douglas Adams
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    calm, think calm GFM....

    *runs off to hide all the newbies from GFM's murderous rage*

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    lol im not murderous really, im soft and fluffy and chocolatey and melty <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; sorry throwback from my old net name, been reading old logs...

    I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
    ~ the late, great Douglas Adams
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