Handjob... help!

Former Member

I've been with my fella for well over a year now and I still haven't given him a handjob but I have tried. My wrist gets too sore and I can't carry on.
This morning I tried it again, I went for as long as I could and past that point but I had to give up and we just ended up having sex instead. He also was so ready to cum a number of times but didn't because my wrist got sore and I had to slow down and it went away. My wrist is now so sore that I can't move it without pain shooting up and down my arm.
I need some tips/advice about what I could do to make him cum quicker or to at least last without my wrist/arm feeling like it is about to drop off. I REALLY want to pleasure him the way he can with me.

Former Member

I don't know a bloke that wouldn't rather have a blow job than a hand job

So a sure fire way to come is to encorporate them together, use your mouth and hand, then if your wrist gets sore just concentrate on the mouth action.

Former Member

Yep, what beans said. Also listen to your bloke and vary the speed and actions accordingly. You really shouldn't be left with a damaged wrist after wanking him, it sounds like you're probably going too quickly or with too much force.

Former Member

My bloke is lucky if he gets a handjob because i encounter the same problem.But thats because ive got a minor problem with my joints anyway.
Personally id go with what beans said,i cant think of any guy that ive been with who would rather have a hand job than a blow job or even sex itself.
Dont necessarily think of a hand job as a way to make you blokey come perhaps think of it as a prelude to something else?

Former Member

and i'd go and get your wrists checked out, it could be an RSI which could get a hell of a lot worse left unchecked

Former Member

If your wrists get sore just stick it in your mouth :thumb:

Former Member

Ease off on the grip or get some lube on the go:) Should make things less strenuous then.

Former Member

I know how you feel so when my wrist gets sore I get my boyfriend to help to give my hand a break. Also I play with his balls for a bit (which he really likes) until I can carry on. Solves the problem a treat. Hope my advice helps.