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Finding yourself again
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It feels so strange when you come out of a relationship trying to find yourself again. Im realising that my ex made me introverted and worried in the end. I am remembering things that i used to enjoy before i met him. Im thinking i may rather be with a woman next time round. I semi dated a woman for the first time after breaking up with him who was passing through the country and she made me feel good about myself and brought a smile to my face. Maybe its time to try out my other side more. Today when i was out i checked out more women than men.
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i need some quality me time....
Dinted - Me time is definately needed after being hurt!
No, i go both ways. Whoever crosses my path next whether they be male/female does not matter to me as long as i like them.
:thumb: Cool hun!
Although i just dont get the whole girl on girl thing! i love men! I mean experimenting is one thing but a long term relationship....hummm.......i am not being closed minded, just doesnt do it for me
The next day you're asking yourself why there's something sexy about a man's upper body.
However I've heard that some women do decide to go for women instead of men after bad experiences. A fair few gay women I know have been raped or abused bad, but I don't think that turned them 'gay'. I think most people are 'bisexual' to a point.