How can I show I'm interested?

Former Member

Hey folks, I'll cut straight to the chase here. I like this girl who I met at a club about a week ago. We kissed goodnight the day we met but we weren't down each other's throats. We've met during the day for coffee since, and I was chatty but not really that flirty... but neither was she... the last time I saw her was Thursday night and she said she'd see me sometime over the weekend... I asked her for a drink Sat night and she replied to say she couldn't and she was sorry. Haven't heard from her since...I just want to know if there's any signs I should kinda look for that would let me know if she's lost interest, or if there's anyway I could show her I'm interested in her (assuming she thinks I'm not) without looking like a total berk?

I've not felt like this about someone for ages she makes me nervous, my heart pounds when I'm around her the works... please someone help me suss this thing out...

xxx

Former Member

Just call her. If she is interested she will speak to you. If she isn't she will probably not answer your calls/texts or just tell you straight out. Don't waste time if you think it could be something worthwhile. Go for it. I mean, she obviously likes you some seeing as you kissed, and met up again.

Good luck