dating friends

Former Member

ok so my last 2 boyfriends were close friends and i swore to myself that i wouldnt get with another friend well now im 'seeing' another friend. i mean it feels so right when we're together but i dunno i have this doubt in me. but then i cant stop thinking about him. and its not like he was a close friend just a mate i hung out with occasionally. he's like one of my best mates best mates.

what do you think?

Former Member

I don't see how anyone can not be friends before they are more... Unless you just randomly asked someone out, which in my opinion is incredibly strange. I say go for it if it feels right :thumb:

Former Member

CathaEdulis wrote:

I don't see how anyone can not be friends before they are more... Unless you just randomly asked someone out, which in my opinion is incredibly strange. I say go for it if it feels right :thumb:

LOL
Seriously though, you do have a point...

Former Member

The best partners are friends.

If your partner isn't your best friend then you're not doing it right.

Former Member

I agree with whats being said but I also get where your coming from. If the relationshipo goes tits up then you've not only lost your gf/bf but also a good mate. If it feels right you've gotta go for it though because otherwise you'll be left wondering "wot if"

Former Member

i find that dating friends isn't really great even though it is in the relationship stage but if the relationships doesnt work out you havnt only lost a bf/gf but also a friend. you can however remain friends but can sumtimes make things awkward. on the other hand im best friends with a girl i used to go out with (only after trouble in our friendship) but its ur decision

Former Member

Kermit wrote:

If your partner isn't your best friend then you're not doing it right.

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