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Friction burn?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Everytime I have sex with my fella (and I mean everytime!) afterwards I feel so sore down below. I feel like my vagina has been pulled and stretched and it really stings to pee. Now my fella isn't massive, he is the idea size for me, so I know that it isn't his dick causing the problem.
Could it be friction causing the soreness?
Has anyone else had the same?
How did you cope with it?
I would really love to get some advice as it is really starting to put me off sex as I am starting to associate it with pain! Something that I don't want to do as I love having sex with my fella, but the pain afterwards is a lot to cope with now.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Friction can cause soreness. I once had sex that was too rough and I had internal cuts and bruising, along with a nice bout of thrush and cystitis - it ain't fun. Are you wet enough before he enters you? Spending more time on foreplay might help. And it can also help to use a little lubricant, sometimes I use a little to help things along, especially if I've been under a lot of stress etc
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe you have thrush or something similar?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh my gosh i was watching tv with my dad and an advert came on to do with this! it eases burning or soreness around the vagina. sorry cant remember what it was called!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    was the slogan ''fast relief for feminine itching'' ? :cool:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you might be allergic to the condoms you're using
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    more lube :yes: use some ky jelly :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah its prob that your not lubricated enough! so just buy some!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks. Shall get some KY! :naughty:
    Also to the comment about condoms, we don't use any as I am allergic to them. But he was tested as he can slept with other girls before me and he was my first so I didn't need to get tested. I am on the mini-pill.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I used to get friction pain after sex for a long time. Try asking him to be a little more gentle and see if that helps, also try lubes it could be that your not moist enough to accept him without friction.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    paperBprincess wrote:
    you might be allergic to the condoms you're using


    I found that. My vagina is a snob, i get sore unless i use the best condoms lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    satehen wrote:
    My vagina is a snob, i get sore unless i use the best condoms lol
    That is a classic
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Replicant wrote:
    more lube :yes: use some ky jelly :)

    KY Liquid is much better than the jelly :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    CathaEdulis wrote:
    KY Liquid is much better than the jelly :yes:

    is it? I'll have to try :chin:
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