Home Sex & Relationships
If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Aged 16-25? Share your experience of using the discussion boards and receive a £25 voucher! Take part via text-chat, video or phone. Click here to find out more and to take part.
Options

when a guy cums....

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok... i was giving my first hand job yesterday and had to stop "seconds" before he was about to cum. the reason for that is not important.

ok... but what i was wondering was when a guy cums what happens? i mean like i was fully dressed so would it of got on me and does it stain?

:confused:

Comments

  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fish_food wrote:
    ok... i was giving my first hand job yesterday and had to stop "seconds" before he was about to cum. the reason for that is not important.

    ok... but what i was wondering was when a guy cums what happens? i mean like i was fully dressed so would it of got on me and does it stain?

    :confused:

    Whether you got cum on your clothes would depend on where you were positioned in relation to your bloke, and how strongly he came, and so on.

    If you wipe it off and stuff it would show but would not permanently stain.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    .
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes it stains, and it would have got on you if you were in the way. I'm not quite sure what you're asking here. You obviously do realise that a guy ejaculates semen, so what else is it you want to know?
    yer i know that... it's just like i don't know what happens when he does.... cos i wouldnt want any on my clothes so would want to try and avoid it.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fish_food wrote:
    yer i know that... it's just like i don't know what happens when he does.... cos i wouldnt want any on my clothes so would want to try and avoid it.
    Steer clear. Or make sure his penis isn't pointing towards you.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    stargalaxy wrote:
    Steer clear. Or make sure his penis isn't pointing towards you.

    or take off you're clothes when you do it :yeees:
  • Options
    Dr PirateDr Pirate Posts: 8,303 Legendary Poster
    You should run away from his penis, become a nun and never think of sex again.

    or just watch some porn.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fish_food wrote:
    yer i know that... it's just like i don't know what happens when he does.... cos i wouldnt want any on my clothes so would want to try and avoid it.

    Catch it all in your mouth ....
  • Options
    Dr PirateDr Pirate Posts: 8,303 Legendary Poster
    Teagan wrote:
    Catch it all in your mouth ....
    See, I was gonna say that.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    then you have the choice to swallow or spit making sure you odnt get it on your clothes if you do spit
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you point his penis away from you when he is about to cum then that should help.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    or you could get a tissue or something..but a bit of a killer!
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get a raincoat and goggles . Or when you feel it's about to erupt , run for your life ! :crazyeyes
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When i used to give a lot of hand jobs i'd ask my man to lift up his shirt, he came all over himself that way. It could then easily be wiped/washed off and doesn't leave a stain.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    siton it ;)
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    satehen wrote:
    When i used to give a lot of hand jobs i'd ask my man to lift up his shirt, he came all over himself that way. It could then easily be wiped/washed off and doesn't leave a stain.

    :yes: Or just have your bloke strip and lie down then you can be well clear and it doesn't matter if it goes on him.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You could toss him off, and then gently wrap your lips around the end of his cock when he's about to cum and catch it in your mouth - my bf loves that :naughty: (saves any clearing up too).

    if you don't fancy that, then it's all about postioning. if you usually toss him off while lying on a bed, then point the penis a little upwards and away from his body when he cums - it will mostly "fly' away from you that way lol (but always roll up your sleeve just in case!)
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For some reason, however we're positioned when i'm giving my boyfriend a handjob. I always seem to get cum on me somewhere! I have no idea how he manages it!
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cup your hand over the head when he cums or get him to do itthen it dusnt spray in any unwanted places
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cup your hand over the head when he cums or get him to do itthen it dusnt spray in any unwanted places

    Ahhh why didnt I think of that???
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    satehen wrote:
    When i used to give a lot of hand jobs i'd ask my man to lift up his shirt, he came all over himself that way. It could then easily be wiped/washed off and doesn't leave a stain.

    That breaks me when girls do that. It is going to end up on your shirt then! I'd prefer a tissue to that!
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    get him to wear a condom while u hand job him , then when he cums
    u dont get anything on your clothes easy
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You could always watch some porn, as I'm sure there's plenty of ejaculation in that.

    So have you seen a guy cum before? I'll outline it basically anyway:

    First when he's getting closer to 'climax' he'; start breathing more, be more flushed etc. Then immediately before he'll probably start to tense his body muscles, may take large deep breaths (think the kind of breath you take when you jump in freezing cold water) and his penis will become stiffer (as in rock solid - well it should do). Then muscles along his penis and all the way along his urethra etc. will start clenching rymthimically, each 'clench' occuring maybe a second apart and resulting in a stream of semen coming out :p. The range can be anywhere up to several feet, and the load can be between half a teaspoon to a tablespoon. Afterwards he'll probably go all fatigued and won't really want to move, possibly reciting the words "oh god, that was good" :p and mumbling to himself. All depends how intense it is though. Best to keep even stimulation all the way through the orgasm :thumb: sometimes people want to stop as soon as it starts :(

    If you don't want to get it on your clothes best suggestion is have him lie down, pull up his shirt or take it off, and let him cum over his tummy. That way, if he overshoots, he only gets himself in the eye :p.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WoW shyboy, that was a v.good description!
Sign In or Register to comment.