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I'm losing my best friend.
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My best mate just text me to say she's got a job in Scotland, so in 4 weeks she's moving there with her bf. She's been with him for a while and they moved in together for a few months, but there was violence (from her and him), jelousey and arguments, they split up for a while but then got together again. Since then she's only seen him a few times a week. When i see her she tells me things, that she's going because he wants to, that she thinks she might be a lesbian, that she doesn't feel loved by him etc.. She's got the job now, he hasn't found one (yet) and they haven't got a house. In four weeks they will be (somehow) living in Scotland, she will have no friends or family there and if he doesn't get a job they will be living in relative poverty, as hers is a low paid job. I don't want her to go, i know she won't be happy there, but i have to put on a front and say i am. I don't know what to do! The bestest friend i have ever had is leaving the country with a man i hate, to live in a city where they know no one. What if she stays there? What if i never get her back? :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying:
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