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'Lil help?
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Me
18. Male. Non drinker, non smoker
I'm soon to be going to my local university (already did a year away and didn't like it) studying Maths, living in a big house with my best friend and his girlfriend.
I have sent comedy scripts into BBC and Channel 4 and am expecting responses within the month, so may not be going to university at all, if they decide to buy then (I am hopeful)
I've had 3 girlfriends, 2 were serious (with sex- a long way into the relationship), the 3rd was a bit of a mess that I was glad to get out of it, in all honesty. Thankfully we didn't have sex and I managed to keep my tally as low as possible
The girl
I have only met her once, through a friend of a friend at a very small gathering. She was very beautiful and caught my attention almost immediately. She is 2 years below me in terms of academic years, but is actually little less than a year younger. She doesn't drink either, is a little weird (like me) and seems to be very suited to my character. As far as I know she is single. The one time we did meet, I seemed to be able to make her laugh very easily, which is always a good thing
I haven't seen her for nearly 3 weeks now, but I have thought about her quite a lot. I have a phone number for her friend, and I was considering texting/phoning her to get some contact details
The doubts in my mind are as follows
-I don't know for certain that she is single, and I don't have a way of immediately finding out
-It might strike her as slightly obsessive if I just contact her out of the blue, after 3 weeks or so of having not seen her
-I am not sure of the impression that I left upon her, she may have just thought that I was weird (most people I meet seem to think that)
-I would not wish to embarass her
-Contacting her friend to get her number would seem a little rude
Usually such things would not bother me, but I seem to be stuck for ideas this time round. Clearly she had a strong impact on me, but I wouldn't want to make her awkward if I had not had the same impression on her
Any ideas?
-Leth
18. Male. Non drinker, non smoker
I'm soon to be going to my local university (already did a year away and didn't like it) studying Maths, living in a big house with my best friend and his girlfriend.
I have sent comedy scripts into BBC and Channel 4 and am expecting responses within the month, so may not be going to university at all, if they decide to buy then (I am hopeful)
I've had 3 girlfriends, 2 were serious (with sex- a long way into the relationship), the 3rd was a bit of a mess that I was glad to get out of it, in all honesty. Thankfully we didn't have sex and I managed to keep my tally as low as possible
The girl
I have only met her once, through a friend of a friend at a very small gathering. She was very beautiful and caught my attention almost immediately. She is 2 years below me in terms of academic years, but is actually little less than a year younger. She doesn't drink either, is a little weird (like me) and seems to be very suited to my character. As far as I know she is single. The one time we did meet, I seemed to be able to make her laugh very easily, which is always a good thing
I haven't seen her for nearly 3 weeks now, but I have thought about her quite a lot. I have a phone number for her friend, and I was considering texting/phoning her to get some contact details
The doubts in my mind are as follows
-I don't know for certain that she is single, and I don't have a way of immediately finding out
-It might strike her as slightly obsessive if I just contact her out of the blue, after 3 weeks or so of having not seen her
-I am not sure of the impression that I left upon her, she may have just thought that I was weird (most people I meet seem to think that)
-I would not wish to embarass her
-Contacting her friend to get her number would seem a little rude
Usually such things would not bother me, but I seem to be stuck for ideas this time round. Clearly she had a strong impact on me, but I wouldn't want to make her awkward if I had not had the same impression on her
Any ideas?
-Leth
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i'm sure her friend wouldn't mind you asking... even if she said no to giving it you.
its your loss if you don't make your move.
Will consider all suggestions...