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Why won't it go in?!?!
BillieTheBot
Posts: 8,722 Bot
I'm a 22 year old virgin. I've tried having sex with my girlfriend FOUR TIMES now and it just never happens. It's so weird, I can put my fingers up there fine, but a dick simply won't go in there, however much I try it won't push in, even if she's wet and I'm very hard it just doesn't seem to be able to push in. We've tried various positions but it all is still uncomfortable, basically the legs seem to be in the way lol. 
Whilst I get very aroused normally, on other occasions whenever we're about to have sex I completely lose the erection for ages which is annoying. And then as soon as I get a hard-on, by the time I've put a disgusting sticky latex condom on, she's put KY Jelly on and a bit of frustrating fumbling the erection has completely gone. :mad:
Any useful advice?
Cheers,
Ricky :banghead:
Whilst I get very aroused normally, on other occasions whenever we're about to have sex I completely lose the erection for ages which is annoying. And then as soon as I get a hard-on, by the time I've put a disgusting sticky latex condom on, she's put KY Jelly on and a bit of frustrating fumbling the erection has completely gone. :mad:
Any useful advice?
Cheers,
Ricky :banghead:
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its part of sex i.e foreplay!
not likely, to be perfectly honest.
unless of course, they were asleep together
i was going to say something along those lines.
use your fingers first and then guide yourself in.
anyway wouldn't have thought you'd want to sleep with her if she smelt of shit?
either that, or it could be her actively trying to stop it going in, its easy enough to tense the muscles thus stopping any entry, are you sure she wants it in?
And respect.
Have you tried talking to her about this? Sex is about pleasuring both partners, not just yourself. She probably feels rushed and scared perhaps...
For a woman the first time can hurt a bit, maybe she isn't ready.
firstly it will always go in, It could be tight but its always goes in, sometimes you need to find exactly the right spot, sometimes its better to look to make sure its in the correct possition,
If your doing that and taking say a couple of minuets at most to see if its in right, and its not going in then its cause she's too nervous and you need to relax her.
I also have another opinion to share.... Being and ass wont help things, so I suggest you whisper sweet words and hope she never reads the post you made about her smell. Because if I were her and I read that, my self esteem in sexual activities would plummet, leaving you with nada... AND kicked to the curb.