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mmm messed up
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ok heres a little rant
i split with my girlfriend for a month went back with her a few weeks before her holiday when she went on holiday she came back then dumped me. we was together for a year and 8 months about.
so a few weeks later i met a girl who i never thought of fancing but we done loads of stuff together lately in the past 3 weeks.
one of my mate has been out with her before a while back but then was not too keen on her.
the other night he was telling me how he got rejected from this girl from work after his rejection he then goes back to the girl who i was getting close to.
i was really close to her been chessington watched loads of movies with her chatted to her for 5 hours straight with no tv or radio even went camping. i never told her how i felt but i felt that would scare her away i dropped hints to her but as she told me she cant pick up hints but people gossiped and she was like i dont know what the big deal is we are just friends so i feel she only saw me as a friend but i could not tell.
but now i feel back at square one and im missing my ex gf now because i feel like i cant think forward like i could before when i was seeing this girl thinking its not so bad being single i can move on but now i just been hit back down :crying: .
i split with my girlfriend for a month went back with her a few weeks before her holiday when she went on holiday she came back then dumped me. we was together for a year and 8 months about.
so a few weeks later i met a girl who i never thought of fancing but we done loads of stuff together lately in the past 3 weeks.
one of my mate has been out with her before a while back but then was not too keen on her.
the other night he was telling me how he got rejected from this girl from work after his rejection he then goes back to the girl who i was getting close to.
i was really close to her been chessington watched loads of movies with her chatted to her for 5 hours straight with no tv or radio even went camping. i never told her how i felt but i felt that would scare her away i dropped hints to her but as she told me she cant pick up hints but people gossiped and she was like i dont know what the big deal is we are just friends so i feel she only saw me as a friend but i could not tell.
but now i feel back at square one and im missing my ex gf now because i feel like i cant think forward like i could before when i was seeing this girl thinking its not so bad being single i can move on but now i just been hit back down :crying: .
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Split with my ex in March - met someone straight away. I'm only just right now. I've recently started seeing someone else, but I'm having to take it extremely slowly. You can't compare two people you've had relationships with, as Fairy said above, everyone is different. Try to sit back and have some time thinking about you, you might feel a bit better and be able to see things for what they are more clearly.